tizmos Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 it's been about a week since we talked on the phone and i'm feeling i should email her or something. We broke up because she was confused and, after a week apart, told me she still loved me and missed me. I know the no contact rule is golden, but if there's a chance for a future with this girl, shouldn't I keep the lines of communication somewhat open? I love this girl and we are seriously perfect together, but i don't want to push her away either...I ALSO don't want her to think that i am cool with just being friends...which i fear may happen if I do contact her....ARGH! HELP!
Dork Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 Who cares about the NC rule. It's been a week, IT'S OK to call her to say Hi even leave her a message. If no call was returned a couple days later then you got your answer - she doesn't care.
rukallstar Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 I broke the NC rule. Really, I was doing all right. My ex and I agreed that we would not contact each other for 6 months. It was my suggestion because we had been going back and forth trying to break-up but not doing it. Our relationship was an LDR. that was part of the problem and she felt she was too young to get married, i agree. she has only just turned 25 and is only two years out of school. we're urban people. selfish and such. Well, I called and left a message of, "I'm not sure why I called, you don't have to call me back." Really, at this point I'm not ready to talk to her. I'm in the middle of a job search, want to get the job and then evaluate how I feel after I'm more grounded. She called me back after 2 days. I just said, "Hey, you know, I should probably go. My gut tells me that this is really just a courtesy call." She was a bit surprised when I said I had to go so quickly. I was caught off guard by the fact that she withheld the number, so I wouldn't recognize it. I think (95%) that she is dating someone else. I have been dating as well, but nothing serious. Women usually get into a relationship quicker. What do you make of the fact that she called?
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