snowloverbaby Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 So this was my story a year ago: Friday I finally met with my ex for the first time in 7 weeks. 4 weeks since the break up. It was great to see him. We hugged and kissed. It was strange at first but he opened up after about 30 minutes. He was the dumper. By the time we left after 2 hours, I kissed him several times, we held hands, hugged, said many i missed yous, and had a good meeting. He said he wanted to keep seeing where this is gonna go and take it from there and keep hanging out. He even called me last night and we talked for almost 2 hours. He hasnt called me in weeks. I dont know where its gonna go...but he was strictly NC for about 3 weeks. He would only answer texts if they were confrontational. We have been in closer contact this last week. It was very hard on me. Ive had to trust in not losing my temper again because i did for a bit early into the break up and it pushed him away even more. Its not always important to have the last word or the best word. I still love him and he said he still cares for me and missed me. Im gonna take it one day at a time. Anyone have a similar situation have an advice or a success story? Update: We got married in July. We are so happy and doing great. To all those hoping. Never give up! 5
CptSaveAho Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 Impressive, you married a guy that you dated for 6 months ago and he dumped you only wanting to be friends.... This is going to turn out well....
jjc82 Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 Congratulations. Always remember to keep working on the relationship.
Minadee Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world.
gabriel345 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Hey! congratulations and thank you for giving an actual happy ending!! Also I have a few questions, how long did it take to actually come together again? And who made the most contact first him or you?, regarding my current situation (went on date few days ago, he kissed me then he messaged but nothing important/short conv), he hasn't done anything else for 2 days :/ would you let it be or contact?
Cutiepie1976 Posted November 21, 2012 Posted November 21, 2012 Congrats!!! I'm so happy for you! Thanks so much for sharing your happy ending. It's easy to get demoralized when you're working on things with an ex and all you read on here are worst case scenarios. There is hope!
GetHerBack Posted November 22, 2012 Posted November 22, 2012 Congratulations to you both! I must say it can be hard reading all of these stories on these forums with not-so-happy endings. Yours was definitely refreshing.
Charmy Posted November 24, 2012 Posted November 24, 2012 I'm not sure if I should still hope, anyway, your story is inspiring!
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