NGC1300 Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 This ever happen to anyone? Normally, if I can at least get that first reply, it means she's at least somewhat interested. This girl though, I don't know. I've been brief and just made small talk, but also told her I'd liek to keep exchanging e-mails and maybe meet some time. She responds, but it's usually with fairly cold, short replies. Not gonna waste any more time thinking about this. In fact as of now it's looks like I've been officially blown off. I wonder if some girls reply just because they feel obligated?
Author NGC1300 Posted November 15, 2012 Author Posted November 15, 2012 There are a lot of women that reply just to "be nice". Which I think is a terrible thing to do. If she wants to reply and say "thanks, not interested in meeting...but I dont mind chatting a bit".... thats a better way to handle it. But usually...a lot of women will live in that grey area...and you have no idea where you sit. Yeah I'm guilty of just ignoring e-mails from girls I'm not interested in. I think that's the way it should be though. One thing I'm learning in this dating game is to NEVER invest any emotion into anything, which is not always easy. You meet a girl and seem to hit it off, then she drops you. You message back and forth with another, and then she just stops responding. I feel like no matter how many times these things happen, it still stings each time.
Author NGC1300 Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 wow, just wow. The last e-mail I sent her was pretty short, just mentioned something about how my last relationshiop went sour. Her entire reply: "awe bummer". Needless to say I'm done messaging this bitch. 1
phineas Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 I ask if they want to meet or talk after like the 3rd message now. If their interested it doesn't matter how soon I ask really.
rocketman122 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 you can feel if the person is interested. if she makes a half azzed attempt then leave it. it could be she's just checking you. or maybe she's just frustrated. who knows. take it as it looks. not so interested. I personally reply to almost message/wink/flirt card I get. even if im not, its common courtesy. how hard is it to write a no thank you message.
Mrlonelyone Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Yeah I'm guilty of just ignoring e-mails from girls I'm not interested in. I think that's the way it should be though. One thing I'm learning in this dating game is to NEVER invest any emotion into anything, which is not always easy. You meet a girl and seem to hit it off, then she drops you. You message back and forth with another, and then she just stops responding. I feel like no matter how many times these things happen, it still stings each time. Had sex with a woman I dated off and on once. The last time we were on our way to the off position she said she never ever felt anything for me. When we had sex she was just being nice. :| No wonder many people have a hard time believing someone like me would want to put up with women when I can get men.
PhillyDude Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 I was corresponding with a woman from the dating site for over a week. Both of us emailing back and forth. All of a sudden, one day she stops....so I give it a few days, then email her asking whats going on? She wrote back saying "you didnt give me anything to reply to in your last email" Well that was your fault because you were supposed to ask for her number after about 20 messages
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