Conscience Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 If I really irritated her and was a douche and she dumped me should I NC ?
flitzanu Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 you don't seem to understand the point of "no contact". there's no "using" it.
Author Conscience Posted November 15, 2012 Author Posted November 15, 2012 you don't seem to understand the point of "no contact". there's no "using" it. Bah its just a language barrier im French! What I meant is that should I go NC in circonstances where I acted like a D*** and was dumped or should I reach out to her once in a while and at the same time give her space...
flitzanu Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 Bah its just a language barrier im French! What I meant is that should I go NC in circonstances where I acted like a D*** and was dumped or should I reach out to her once in a while and at the same time give her space... no you're asking about "using" it. there is no using. NC means "no contact". that means you do not have any contact with another person because you need to heal. staying in contact with someone who dumps you will only make you miserable.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 If I really irritated her and was a douche and she dumped me should I NC ? Yes, because contacting her right after the break makes you even more irritating and more of a douche in her mind.
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