dub03 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I haven't spoken to my girlfriend of a year since she broke up with me over a month ago. I work one day a week at the same place she does, and we have yet to work a shift together since we split. However, this Saturday we are working together along with a guy who I was told she started dating soon after we broke up. The interesting thing is that she is in charge of making the schedules, so this wasn't an accident. Any advice on how to handle or approach the situation????? Thanks!
DazednConfused Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Be polite, non-threatening and do your job. Show her that you are the better man, and have gotten on with your life as well.
Taken_Angel Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I agree with dazed, be polite, maybe she did this to rub it in your face or maybe she is trying to make you do something so you'll get fired (maybe he's jealous of you) or maybe she is trying to show him that you have no feelings for her anymore or that there's nothing between you two now. Or maybe she just wanted the attention of two males she was with, maybe she needs an ego boost. No matter what the situation is you know that you have to be the bigger man, it will no doubt be uncomfortable, just do your job and IGNORE them and then you'll probably see (by the way she acts) what her intentions were. Pretend you didn't know she did it on "purpose" and DON'T confront her about it.
Pocky Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I agree with the above posts. Be polite and don't let anyone think you're bothered by it. Be good natured and cordial.
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