yorkshire_lad Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 i dont know what to do plz help. it all started about a month ago i got out of work early and was meant to be meeting my fiancee in town or at her`s so i foned and no answer i phoned about 8 times so i then sent a text saying look tryed to fone but im going out for a drink etc etc, anyhow i caught her with another guy and went off on my own got very drunk and tryed a overdose. she came to see me in hospital and basically she doesnt know what she wants because the past month with us wasnt very good. i got out a couple of days later and we had a holiday booked so we still went abroad but as m8s. i told her i still love her and she said please dont i think we are better off friends i said ok but when we got back i said would i have a chance with getting back with you she said dunno i need to think things through etc she said if i said yes i want it to be sure your the person i want to be with and not do it again, but then there is this other guy who keeps texting her they do meet up but i meet up with her 2. i hug her hold her hand and i dunno if thats giving me false hope or not but i just dont know what to do everybody says leave her but if thats what i should do, it is so hard i have tryed but always end up texting her i dont want to lose her i would get back with her if she wanted, hope some of this has kinda made sence. i would be so greatful for advice i really need it thanks very much.
EC Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Oh sweet heart I think shes playing with you. She's confused and she's trying to have both of you. I think you should leave her alone and let her make her decision but don't wait around for her. I don't think she loves you and you can find someone else.
Pocky Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Did she explain why she thought you were better off as friends?
Author yorkshire_lad Posted August 5, 2004 Author Posted August 5, 2004 apparently we had a bad month and things didnt feel right but everybody has them dont they? i want to leave her alone its just hard
EC Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Yes everyone has their bad months but thats when you realize if you can stay together by working out your problems. Fights either make you bond stronger or separate you further. Is she dating this other guy as well?
Author yorkshire_lad Posted August 5, 2004 Author Posted August 5, 2004 she spent night with him apparently they did things apart from sex but i dont believe that i know what she is like drunk.she aint with him she said she cant see them together but admitted she did enjoy the afternoon withhim 2day they went for a few drinks. am i just being sad?
EC Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Yeah... I'm sorry but if she liked you she would be spending the afternoon with you getting drinks not him..can't you see that? Find someone who really likes you and stop seeing this girl. She sounds like trouble to me and all she is going to do is use you and confuse you.
Dork Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 she's playing you fool, listen to nthat ethernalllady confused woman
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