Melissa7611 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 hey guys...some of you may remember me from a thread i posted last week...why are guys so confusing? well..i thought i'd give you guys an update as to what happened. well..he didn't call. not on thursday or friday. suddenly on friday (early evening) i got the sudden urge to call. so like and idiot, i call. he picks up his phone. we talk for a few minutes. i asked when he got back from louiseville, he said late last night. i didn't say a word to him about not calling me. he asked me what was going on. told him i had been busy running around all week, with school and errands. he mentioned he had 2 finals he had to study for the next week and how he was all whacked out from all the traveling he had done in the last couple of days. anyways...after chatting for a few minutes, i decided to mention again, the fact that i was going to gainesville the next day. i asked him if he wanted to get together. he said he had to do some studying , but yeah. he asked me when i was going to get into gainesville. i told him sometime in the afternoon. he said..give me a call when you get in. so..the next day i call him when i arrive. it's 3:30 pm. i didn't hear anything from him until 9p.m. that night. by this time, i had already decided that he was just messing with me. my friends convinved me to not under any circumstances call him back. he knew i was there and it was now up to him. anyways..he called and he told me he had been in the library studying all day. i asked him if he got alot accomplished he said..i still need to study some more. i said..we'll im here. do u want to do something? he said yeah..what time tomorrow? what are your plans? i said well..i have to go to a baptism and then a party afterwards, but after that nothing. he said o.k. well,why don't you just do what u have to do tomorrow and give me a call. i said..do you want me to come? he said yes i do. i already told u that. i said are u sure? he said yes. i should have just left it alone. i asked him what time he wanted me to come..he said how about 5 or 6 pm? i said sure no problem..well...i had to cut the conversation short..i was in the middle of packing boxes. so i really couldn't talk to much. i told him..o.k. i'll call u tomorrow and get directions. he said o.k. talk to u later. next day, i call around 1:30 pm. he doesn't pick up. i leave a voice mail, telling him i need directions and i'll probably be there around 5 or 6. i figured he was probably studying. (his finals were in Economics and Finance). i wait till 3:30. i had a two hour drive ahead of me, and i was not about to start that drive if he didn't call me back. Finally i said ,,i'm gonna call him agian, and this time i am going to tell him how i feel. he picks up the phone. i said..hey what's up? did u get my message..he said..yeah i'm studying. so i said....and??? he said what? i said did u listean to it. he said..yeah i did. and then he said you said you'd be here around 5 or 6. i said yeah..but i need directions. well, by this time i was pissed. i said is everything alright. you seem kinda weird. he was quiet. i said...hello, are u there? finally he answered..." i hate being quizzed. why are u always asking me that?" in shock i said, what the hell are u talking about. i just called because i needed directions. what is wrong with you. he stated: i am stressed out, i have alot of things going on, between work and school and my grandfather. (his grandfather is dying from prostate cancer) i told him how sorry i was, and i told him how was i supposed to know all this, since i had only talked to him for 5 minutes twice that week. I said don't take it out on me!! how am i supposed to know these things, if u don't tell me. then i said...well..do u want me to come or not? i am not going there if you don't want me to. he was quiet..i said..hello??/ finally he said...i want you to come, in a nice sweet voice. sorry this is so long.... so i said ok, i need directions. he begins to give them to me..i told him forget it, i'll call u when i get close. he then asks me what i want to do when i get there. i said it doesn't matter. i get to tallahassee, i call him, he's all nice on the phone and sounds as if everthing is alright. i get to his house, he shows me around it, we sit and talk, he tries to put his arms around me and be all affectionate. i tell him i am still mad at him. he says..are we going to talk about this all night. i said no.... but he didn;t have to be mean to me on the phone. anyways..we watch a movie and hang out and have fun while messing around i say something to him about not wanting to have sex right now. we are very attracted to each other and have good chemistry. not onlyphysical. he asks me if i have expectations. i tell him...no. which is true. i said i just let things flow. he said,,,cause i saw u last weekend and now today. and i won't be here for the next couple of weeks...he's going to aruba on vaca and then when he gets back to peru, for business. anyways..i tell him that i won't be up there any time soon either. i am moving out of my apartment in two weeks and i have finals comming up so i won't be up there either. i have tons of things going on. that was the end of that conversation. we hang out the rest of the night, order dinner eat and mess around some more.. i go to leave, he walks me outside and gives me a kiss on the forehead and lips. he said thantk u for comming. i said...u don;t have to thank me. he then asks me to call him when i get to gainesville, probably around 12:30 in the morning. he said leave a message if i don't pick up..i might be sleeping. i call him. next evening he calls me. we talk for about ten minutes and then he says i'll give u a call sometime soon. i said how about if i call u tom. or wed. i decided i wanted to be in control. i called him tuesday night, we talked for a few minutes. tell him about my day and i asked him about his final. he then says..he had to go and study. he asked if i was going to be around on wed. i said yes. he said he would call me. well. wed, came and went and he didn't call. i know he was probably studying for his finance final, so he was probably real busy... my question is...should i call him tonight? he has his final tonight and then he's leaving for aruba tom. morning. what is going on. he was all happy when i was there and when he knew i was comming , now what? i won't dare ask him.. i mean does he have some interest in me? i know he has alot on his plate right now. by the way..he didn't pressure me into sleeping with him. he was real sweet. he kept on asking me to give him kisses on his face and neck and forehead. he said it felt good. i told him..why he said he beacuse he liked them. i said..o.k i guess i'll have to make up for the time we won't see each other. now what? should i call?? sorry about this post being so long. i don't want to leave any details out.
clia Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 should i call?? No. He said he would call you. He hasn't yet. The ball is in his court. You have done entirely enough calling and chasing over the past week. Don't call.
Author Melissa7611 Posted August 5, 2004 Author Posted August 5, 2004 thanks!!! i'm not going to. you are right!!! i am not going to chase after him!! he must know where i stand
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