Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Hey, listen. If you love her, let her go. There's a whole quote about it and everything. I mean, I get it. I get the obsessive EVERYTHING just to try to get someone back. But honestly - she's scared! You're scaring and hurting the one you love! That's not love anymore. That's you wanting to possess her and going nuts because you can't. i know i can't possess her, but jesus, how long do i have to wait?
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 What I said isn't nasty at all. It's reality. Here are the facts: 1. He won't stop calling her or texting her. So, she changed her number. 2. He thinks it's perfectly OK to just show up to her parent's house. So, her parents have had the cops called. 3. The cops have been called on him numerous times. 4. He continues to flood her e-mail inbox. 5. He refuses to stop. It has now become a problem. This behavior isn't "needy" or "clingy." It's obsessive, and borderline stalking. HE NEEDS a wake up call and until he's in cuffs, I really don't think he's going to get it. He's basically a stalker in training. Look at any stalking statistics, this is how they start off. They are obsessive, they are relentless, they don't think it's a problem, they don't stop. It becomes more and more outrageous and ultimately in the end, someone winds up hurt, and it's ALWAYS the person being stalked. Just read his past threads. Because he was "unable to change her mind" and make her love him again, he was "furious" and "livid" to the point where he wanted to physically assault someone, I'm assuming it's her. He flat out admitted that if he would have acted on his impulses he'd wind up being arrested. One of these days, he's going to flat out snap. So, am I sorry for being mean? Nope. Not at all. It's not a game anymore. 1 2 3 4 all false. i turned up at her college. she overreacted by calling cop shop then laughed about it over coffee. in relation to 5, ive emailed her 3 times, once every 5 days or so. big. deal. in comparison to where i was a month ago, my emotions are in check.
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Here is where I think he's a troll. He has not made ONE COMMENT to anyone. He just continues to post this stupid s.hit about how he "won't give up on the one he loves." He hasn't acknowledged anything any of us has said. He's either trolling, or has already gone off the deep end and only sees the world through his own lens. If you're serious: This is great that you won't give up on the one you love... but news flash-- SHE GAVE UP ON YOU. I'm no troll. I joined this site for advice. Boy do I get it, but I never listen do I? 25, and your 19year old ex is at uni, amongst the jungle, how the **** else do i fight for it? the times i have wanted to go see her. but ive fully backed off, and kept it measured over a couple of emails.
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 and no, no real mental health problems here folks. 1
Sav Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 and no, no real mental health problems here folks. That's what they all say 1
KatZee Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 and no, no real mental health problems here folks. Most in denial, hilarious post I've seen to date. I actually wish you WERE a troll because that would justify these posts. Yikes.
Sav Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 Just gotta chip in a lil tho, your emotions are defo not in check. It IS a big deal if you will not stop TRYING to contact her. I said trying because apparently she dont give two hoots about replying you so I suggest you take two toothpicks and pry your eyes wide open if you have to. The truth here is that you are delusional and it is OBVIOUS she wants nothing to do with you (oh I wonder why indeed). Go look up on harassment and maybe you will see what you're doing is not right so for the love of god LEAVE THE POOR 19 Y/O GIRL ALONE
cavalier99 Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 I love this guy. Keep them coming. Your are helping us all get over our breakups and see humor in the things we do. You are genius.. it is artistry to watch. I hope we are helping you to either get a great laugh or have place to vent. Your the man!
Author frederickkk Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 I love this guy. Keep them coming. Your are helping us all get over our breakups and see humor in the things we do. You are genius.. it is artistry to watch. I hope we are helping you to either get a great laugh or have place to vent. Your the man! I'm just venting
ls32ssibm Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 And I thought my obsession with my last ex was bad. I was 22, and 24 now and will never act that way again. Was she your first girlfriend or something?
LostOne1 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 And I thought my obsession with my last ex was bad. I was 22, and 24 now and will never act that way again. Was she your first girlfriend or something? yeahh we all been there once I think.. then we learn. it sucks because I personally for myself had AWESOME advice and I never took it from family and friends jsut saying go NC and block her on FB. But I was stupid and didn't give her the space she needed and move on with myself. Dragged it out like this guy and it hurt more. Because now I lost her for good sadly...
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