frederickkk Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Yeah, can't give up. Hanging onto hope.
veggirl Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 (edited) OMFG. I already told you that your emails prob go straight to her spam/trash. this is hopeless. you are hopeless!!! Get a grip. You have tons more girls that you are going to meet and date. Do you have a counselor or anything? friends? family? that you can confess to about how you are losing your mind and being irrational and frankly kinda scary at this point? do you think stalking someone will win them over? do you think that harrassing this girl will make her love you? honestly, do you? Edited November 14, 2012 by veggirl
Author frederickkk Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 OMFG. I already told you that your emails prob go straight to her spam/trash. this is hopeless. you are hopeless!!! Get a grip. You have tons more girls that you are going to meet and date. Do you have a counselor or anything? friends? family? that you can confess to about how you are losing your mind and being irrational and frankly kinda scary at this point? do you think stalking someone will win them over? do you think that harrassing this girl will make her love you? honestly, do you? yeah im well and truly ****ed from this.
veggirl Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 yeah im well and truly ****ed from this. ya don't say! dude please try to be LOGICAL for ONCE. she knows you want her back. she knows you are basically obsessed with her. please tell me, do you think harrassing her will make her love you? do you think it will win her over? answer the questions instead of ignoring them, perhaps it will help you to THINK. fkkk. 1
KatZee Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Oh I need to jump on in with this one... reading past threads now.
2sunny Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Good god - when someone doesn't respond - they are telling you to buzz off! Stop it!
LostOne1 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Dude 3 emails is a bit too much. If at all at the most 1 email. If you bug her too much she will get more angry. Trust me I did more than you did and some ways it helped me some ways it didn't. But it doesn't look good to her too much. I mean if you send 1 email and let it all out that is MORE than enough.
KatZee Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 "im not going to chase her. and i need to focus on me now." What happened to this? ^^^^ "so ****ing angry right now. i cant change this girls mind." I was actually looking forward to an entertaining thread, but dude... you're scaring ME and I'm not even sure where you're located. I'm going to be as serious as possible with you right now because frankly, I'm surprised the cops haven't arrested you for stalking yet. But I guarantee if you continue on, you will find yourself behind bars. I suggest you pick yourself up and head to the nearest mental health facility. You are not right in the mind and you need help. Not from us LS'ers because we can't give it to you. You need therapy, and quite possibly medication. I'm really not quite sure what you're doing anymore with this. You keep contacting her why? Have you actually READ any of the stuff that is said on these forums? How chasing an ex is the best way to get them NOT to want you? You can't force someone to love you, or "change their mind" and at this point, you have NO chance with your ex. NONE. Not even a 0000.1% chance. You've truly pushed and probably terrified this girl to the point where she wouldn't even be caught dead in a room alone with you. If any of my exes ever acted this way, you better believe the cops would be after him for harassment, stalking, and whatever other charges I could slap on him. I wouldn't feel safe unless he was behind bars. You need help. Seriously. 1
taya Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 ya don't say! dude please try to be LOGICAL for ONCE. she knows you want her back. she knows you are basically obsessed with her. please tell me, do you think harrassing her will make her love you? do you think it will win her over? answer the questions instead of ignoring them, perhaps it will help you to THINK. fkkk. lol yeah i agree lol because he keep bothering her good luck with getting her to answer you wow she thinks your a crazy at this point and ever email you send to her will make you look more dame crazy you need to ear what people telling you to do wow and stop being childish mean that in the most respect tho but thats how you acting come on now that girl will not answer you know why you dont know when to let go and let someone miss you ..all i can say stop making a fool out of your self no more emails if she wanted to talk to you am sure she knows your email/number
KatZee Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 At this point, you're also doing this to yourself. She's not even breadcrumbing you. She's flat out ignoring you, has you blocked on every single platform, doesn't see you or hang with you... you're stuck in your own delusional world by yourself. It's been three months. THREE MONTHS. What have you been doing with yourself in three months? Hm? Anything besides sending her emails all the time? You're stuck because you make not ONE effort to adjust your situation. You just continue to sit and wallow in your "miserable" world feeling sorry for yourself. Breakup's HAPPEN. They are a fact of life. Heartbreak is a part of life... honestly if you can't even handle this, I'm not quite sure how you'd handle other aspects of life that start to creep up as you get older. 1
Under The Radar Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I almost feel a civic and moral obligation to second everyone else's advice here. I'm sorry, but there is no hope left to cling to. You need to listen to everyone who is posting to go NC and leave her alone. I realize you're in pain, but you need to hear this: SHE'S GONE FOREVER! You are not going to see her or talk to her ever again. If there was any chance at all it was to go NC. Blowing up her phone and stalking her has eliminated any possibility of a reconciliation. You are 25 years old. You will learn from this and meet another woman in the future. My only hope now is that your brain takes over your heart before you end up with a restraining order. 1
taya Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 At this point, you're also doing this to yourself. She's not even breadcrumbing you. She's flat out ignoring you, has you blocked on every single platform, doesn't see you or hang with you... you're stuck in your own delusional world by yourself. It's been three months. THREE MONTHS. What have you been doing with yourself in three months? Hm? Anything besides sending her emails all the time? You're stuck because you make not ONE effort to adjust your situation. You just continue to sit and wallow in your "miserable" world feeling sorry for yourself. Breakup's HAPPEN. They are a fact of life. Heartbreak is a part of life... honestly if you can't even handle this, I'm not quite sure how you'd handle other aspects of life that start to creep up as you get older. wow well said ..and so true
Own Worst Enemy Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 You are either a troll or you are one frightening guy, my friend. You are stalking a CHILD. For the rest of her life, she will be telling her friends about the terrifying creepy guy. That's you, that is. You're 25. You have the rest of your life to find someone who actually wants you. How tragic to waste that on stalking someone who isn't even old enough to drink in most of America. Don't be that guy. You know no good is coming of this.
veggirl Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 3 emails lol, that ain't **** bro. I texted my ex like 40 times today, and got like 2 responses. I have a daughter with her, so that's why I'm bugging so hard. It's hard to see them, and then watch them leave to go home with another dude. I think these posts are way exaderated. It's not that serious. There will be a time a give up, but it just isn't now. But when I do, 3 years down the road **** won't even be a topic of discussion. No one will care. Your not crazy, your just in love. **** is powerful. But I would stop if you could. Uh no dude read his past threads. He has crossed the line into crazytown. This girl has changed her # to get rid of him and CALLED THE COPS. It is called self-respect and self-control. 40 texts, wow. You should probably ask yourself the same thing this dude needs to ask himself--do you think harrassing your ex and sending her 40 texts is going to change her mind? No it is going to drive her further away!
Author frederickkk Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 3 emails lol, that ain't **** bro. I texted my ex like 40 times today, and got like 2 responses. I have a daughter with her, so that's why I'm bugging so hard. It's hard to see them, and then watch them leave to go home with another dude. I think these posts are way exaderated. It's not that serious. There will be a time a give up, but it just isn't now. But when I do, 3 years down the road **** won't even be a topic of discussion. No one will care. Your not crazy, your just in love. **** is powerful. But I would stop if you could. I emailed her on the 6th, the 10th, and today (14th). not at all once.
Author frederickkk Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 (edited) Uh no dude read his past threads. He has crossed the line into crazytown. This girl has changed her # to get rid of him and CALLED THE COPS. It is called self-respect and self-control. 40 texts, wow. You should probably ask yourself the same thing this dude needs to ask himself--do you think harrassing your ex and sending her 40 texts is going to change her mind? No it is going to drive her further away! she changed her number because she gave me mixed messages over a coffee, rejected me, THEN i texted her flat for a week. I tried my ****ing hardest. Big deal she changed her number. she called the police because i turned up at her college, and to be frank she was quite civil about that at the coffee, almost light hearted in fact. Edited November 14, 2012 by frederickkk
taya Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 (edited) 3 emails lol, that ain't **** bro. I texted my ex like 40 times today, and got like 2 responses. I have a daughter with her, so that's why I'm bugging so hard. It's hard to see them, and then watch them leave to go home with another dude. I think these posts are way exaderated. It's not that serious. There will be a time a give up, but it just isn't now. But when I do, 3 years down the road **** won't even be a topic of discussion. No one will care. Your not crazy, your just in love. **** is powerful. But I would stop if you could. hahahah and you wonder why they going home with another dude...40 texts omg ...i know we girls act crazy sometimes because we are very emotional .but to see a guy act this way i wouldent want him either this is a big big big ass turn off and you think you will them back by acting like this?? lol she and the other dude at there house laughing their ass off at your ever text :o:o:o:o:o:o:o Edited November 15, 2012 by taya
Simon Phoenix Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 If you get the police called on you, that's a first-sign indicator to back off. You need to let this girl breathe man.
Author frederickkk Posted November 15, 2012 Author Posted November 15, 2012 If you get the police called on you, that's a first-sign indicator to back off. You need to let this girl breathe man. I know....im a prat. but this girl is amazing!!!
Shaun-Dro Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 Yeah, can't give up. Hanging onto hope. ^^This sounds like another Onegoal in the works. 1
Author frederickkk Posted November 15, 2012 Author Posted November 15, 2012 ^^This sounds like another Onegoal in the works. im her first love.
taya Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 im her first love. omg omg start acting like a man you are acting like a crazy little boy this girl loved you then but not now and i can see why am sorry to be so mean but come on wake up and stop this you are making your self look like a plain out fool and i mean a fool good god man and the worst part is we all telling you how bad it looks and it is and you keep defending your crazy actions then why did you ask for advice if you dident want it ???:o:o:o:o 1
Simon Phoenix Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 im her first love. And won't be her last if you continue this behavior.
Lois Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 You need help. Get it before you are put behind bars. 1
taya Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 You need help. Get it before you are put behind bars. hahahahaha some seriouse help too i have never seen anything as crazy as this omg and i just read he said he email her 3 more times again lol
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