Sun Devil Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 So far this semester, I have talked to dozens of girls. However, all of them tell me that they already have a boyfriend or that they are not looking for a relationship. How do I dealt with this? Is it possible that they are all lying about it, or is it that all single girls are not looking for a relationship?
ThaWholigan Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 How are you asking these girls out? Is there anything else that you have an interest in doing that doesn't involve having a GF? Because if not, that's going to be a problem.
Author Sun Devil Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 I would go up to a girl and just start talking to her. If she seems uninterested, I leave, but if I am able to hold a conversation with her for a while, I ask if she is intersted in doing a particular activity on a weekend. i It is not like I just go up to a girl and ask her out.
ThaWholigan Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I would go up to a girl and just start talking to her. If she seems uninterested, I leave, but if I am able to hold a conversation with her for a while, I ask if she is intersted in doing a particular activity on a weekend. i It is not like I just go up to a girl and ask her out. Cool. Well, all I can say is tough luck. You have to continue this way unfortunately, but you can try to at least be more analytical about who you ask i.e. watch who does seem more interested. Alongside that, you need to do other things to take your mind off "I need a GF :(".
Author Sun Devil Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 How many rejections did you guys have to go throught before you got a girl. I cant do this forever.
Author Sun Devil Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 I just got some pua books and plan on using them to improve the odds. I am just getting tired of the constant rejection
Author Sun Devil Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 why is pua a terrible idea? Prove to me that pua will hurt me instead of helping me. I feel that I have nothing to lose by trying it.
ThaWholigan Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I just got some pua books and plan on using them to improve the odds. I am just getting tired of the constant rejection Which ones? There are a lot of sh*t ones, at least let me point you to the ones that could actually help you and not turn you into a gametard.
youngnlove89 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 So far this semester, I have talked to dozens of girls. However, all of them tell me that they already have a boyfriend or that they are not looking for a relationship. How do I dealt with this? Is it possible that they are all lying about it, or is it that all single girls are not looking for a relationship? How can I say this without deflating your ego... Ah, forget it... They are just NOT THAT INTO you. Simple. You aren't attractive to them. Every girl wants a relationship (eventually) and she wouldn't let the right guy slip away just because she is in that time of her life where she wants to be "single" When a guy asks me out, and he gives me the butterfly-stomach-crawling-goosbumps-make-me-nervous feeling, I'm sure as hell not gonna tell him, I'm not looking for anything right now. Just saying...
Author Sun Devil Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 I have the book magic bullet and the dvd beyond words: the art of body language and physical escalation. I am also thinking about getting the tao of badass in the near future
Mrlonelyone Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Odds are the don't want a relationship thing is just a lie as others have said. it means they aren't attracted enough to you to inconvieience themselves. Having a BF that can be allot of things. Telling a man that she has a BF is a well know *hit test. That does not mean it's a lie. Boyfriend can mean guy she really would like to have as a true BF*. Boyfriend can mean I have a boyfriend but am looking to trade up. Boyfriend can mean I have someone but wouldn't be averse to fooling around. Or it could be bug off. It all depends on how the woman acts towards you more than what she says. I have personally experienced each of those situations up to and including women who were married who were still willing to do everything. My advice to you is not to be discouraged because a young woman says either of those things to you. It is a numbers game and eventually someone will not play games with you. Even if they do play games you have to learn how to play that game. That game is programmed into us by evolution to mix and match the best variety of genes. *I add that one because guys, women pine after men too. Women will even emotionally invest in or have sex with a guy, hang around him really really wish he is her BF but, call him her BF. Yet, in truth, he's not her BF and wouldn't give to *hits if you took her out and had her anyway. This is especially true in college at typical undergraduate ages.
ThaWholigan Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I have the book magic bullet and the dvd beyond words: the art of body language and physical escalation. I am also thinking about getting the tao of badass in the near future OK, well Beyond Words is very good, but you will get the best out of it if you are fit, exercise, have good posture and eat well. Also if you aren't an anxious person. Magic Bullets is OK, it's a little gamey in that it still has remnants from Mystery Method in there, but it's not bad. Tao of Badass is also pretty good too, it will teach you certain dynamics of interaction. My recommendations would be to get some Carlos Xuma material - Secrets of the Alpha Man, Alpha Man Conversation & Persuasion and Ultimate Inner Game are excellent products IMO. Power Social Skills would be good too. Also take a look at Rob Brinded's work, and Bobby Rio's Small Talk program. Those are the ones that helped me do well.
Ami1uwant Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Maybe the way you do it is off..... From my own experience in my college years was to talk to them and then gradually build up the conversation before taking that step in asking them out. Some of the women in college just arent looking for a relationship or having a date. They tend to me more interested in hanging out. 2
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