motionthedance Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 (edited) Hi. To cut a long story short. Girl at work (never spoke to her) was giving me signals over the course of a few weeks (blatant and cute). I really like her but Im generally a really shy with girls but randomly plucked up the courage to say hi to her as i really like her (first time i have ever done this, i was actually gonna ask her out). She stared at me but didnt say hi an kept walking. I think i really surprised\spooked her and since then I have avoided her because Im as embarrassed as hell and I dont want to appear to be harrassing her. Its been two weeks since and we havent had eye contact if you know what I mean (Ive been well scarce).Im really shy.. I think she might be too. Im worried too much time has passed since to reignite an attraction that definateley was there between us. If you were me would you (a) Stop avoiding her and wait for her to say hi (b) Stop avoiding her and say hi again! Thanks for any advice. Hope you are all well! Edited November 14, 2012 by motionthedance
todreaminblue Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Hi. To cut a long story short. Girl at work (never spoke to her) was giving me signals over the course of a few weeks (blatant and cute). I really like her but Im generally a really shy with girls but randomly plucked up the courage to say hi to her as i really like her (first time i have ever done this, i was actually gonna ask her out). She stared at me but didnt say hi an kept walking. I think i really surprised\spooked her and since then I have avoided her because Im as embarrassed as hell and I dont want to appear to be harrassing her. Its been two weeks since and we havent had eye contact if you know what I mean (Ive been well scarce).Im really shy.. I think she might be too. Im worried too much time has passed since to reignite an attraction that definateley was there between us. If you were me would you (a) Stop avoiding her and wait for her to say hi (b) Stop avoiding her and say hi again! Thanks for any advice. Hope you are all well! Go for letter.....bBbB..make yourself available and say hi that's not hard even for a shy guy...and beeeee welllll yourself.....good luck.....deb
ChessPieceFace Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 You probably wrecked it, so try not to be emotionally invested in it. Also try not to be emotionally invested in it so you won't fear rejection. I know you care, but try not to care too much. Once you manage that, go ahead and talk to her and get it over with. More silence is just more awkwardness.
confusedcoworker Posted November 23, 2012 Posted November 23, 2012 Say hi again! I'm going through a similar situation at work, and it's driving me crazy not knowing if he's interested or not. If you are interested, and you are not afraid to make that known, she will probably open up to you eventually...it just takes time. Otherwise, she may not know you are even interested and may not want to risk that you're not, especially if she's shy.
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