jnj123 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 So my ex and I were together for 7 months.. The last two we were broken up but he remained constantly daily calling and texting me even though he did the dumping... Kept looking like we were headed for reconciliation when he would get mad and not talk to me... The last three weeks he keeps getting mad, ignoring me, then hell finally answer.... Last week I kept opening up communication and he would respond... Last Wednesday he even called me out of the blue... We talked like nothing was wrong then he ignored me the next day when I text him only once..Then a few days after that once he ignored me... Seen him at the local bar the next night didnt talk at all but he kept asking friends about me... Tonight I text him trying to be mature and civil and he said the meanest most hurtful things from you don't exist in my life you are dead to me your not even a memory your a waste of life I regret ever meeting you you make me sick I will never speak to you again.... Stop lying I didn't call you Wednesday all these hurtful things.. Posted on fb " people piss me off" (a friend told me)... All I kept saying is I love you please stop and he would say the person you fell in love with doesn't care anymore I stopped caring about you psycho I thought u would change but u haven't go find another boyfriend you dumb cunt..... I haven't slept I'm beside myself because all this anger is out of no where.. I know he has anger issues but how does he go from calling me one day to ignoring me then hating me... I have no idea how to get over him because those were the worst things ever said in addition to us having so many mutual friends...
I'm nuts Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Did he say that to your face? I would have decked him, job done.
sweetkiwi Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 he is giving you plenty of reasons to get over him. 1
Author jnj123 Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 I know he is I just don't get how he's so mean and angry
Sugarkane Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I've unfortunately been on The receiving end of this cruelty. Your ex has just showed what type of person they really are and how low they will stoop. I had to cut mine right off. I never regretted it. Why should you listen to anyway more of this swearing for? You deserve better dont you? 1
Sugarkane Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 My therapist said something to me also (all that time ago). It's easy to insult someone hiding behind a phone isn't it? And not to your face!
Author jnj123 Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 But why hurt someone why stoop so low to the level of pain he just put me through for what reason
taya Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 (edited) But why hurt someone why stoop so low to the level of pain he just put me through for what reason omg if any guy said all of that to me i would be so so so done with him he dont care about you at this point so he dont care what he say but man those are some dirty words to tell someone LET HIM GO LET HIM GO no man shuould talk to you that way omg show him you respect your self if you ever text or call that man again i would not even know what to say to you ..all i can say is anyman that talks to a woman like that is know good ..and the reason why he did it if you want a reason is he could care less about you so stop caring about him ..and dont take him back ever because next time when he gets mad at you he might do worst Edited November 14, 2012 by taya
sweetkiwi Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 to hurt you. Thats reason enough for him. Stop obsessing about this loser. If i were you i'd masturbate, go for a run, cook my favorite meal, read a book and go no contact. 2
taya Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 to hurt you. Thats reason enough for him. Stop obsessing about this loser. If i were you i'd masturbate, go for a run, cook my favorite meal, read a book and go no contact. hahaha me too lol ....the best answer ever haha 1
I'm nuts Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I know he is I just don't get how he's so mean and angry Being mean? It's abuse, emotional abuse.
Sugarkane Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I utterly hate people like this OPs ex. I hope he gets a real psycho.
shayla Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 People like this enjoy inflicting pain on others, they feed off it. Cut this POS off and act like you never met him. Don't say another word to him, if he contacts you, you don't see the message, hear the phone ring, see him in your sight. He doesn't deserve to breathe the same air you do, let alone speak to you. The hateful bastid... 1
veggirl Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 This guy tells you "I hate you" and you respond with "I love you" ?! :confused: Don't text or respond to him again. It was only 7 months, just let it be done. 1
Chi townD Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Even though it was mean and hurtful, it was actually a blessing in disguise. He showed you his true colors. He showed you just how immature he really is. He showed you he has no class whatsoever. And he showed you that he has no idea on how to treat a lady (even one that he's no longer in a relationship with anymore) And finally, he showed you that you deserve so much better.
LostOne1 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 That sounds like my ex when she was mad at me. In her anger it's like she says so many harsh things "I'm with someone else now". THen later tells me how I could have believed her... So why say it if your mad and can't control what you say when your angry. My point is people that can't control what they say when they are mad or just are being assoles don't deserve our time. Personally I feel stupid fighting for my ex after she told me that.. even if she lied or it was the truth. It was something you don't say to someone you love for 3yrs etc.. If someone can treat you that low.. they don't deserve you.
2sunny Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 This guy tells you "I hate you" and you respond with "I love you" ?! :confused: Don't text or respond to him again. It was only 7 months, just let it be done. Why are you handing him ANY of your power? He's a complete jerk! Block him from ever contacting you - EVER again!
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