itsmyfault Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 For those who haven't seen my earlier post a few days ago. Long story short, I broke up with my Ex, Realised it was a bad choice, tried to get her back but she refused. She is seeing someone else. What I don't understand is why does she converse with me? She says things like It doesn't bother me talking to you or I can handle talking to you. so we have a few times. Twice now she has done that and then just disappeared. No words no warning, im blocked on everything. What is going on here? It feels like mind games to me.
dreamstate83 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 It's a shot of validation for when it's running low on their end. A quick fix. Responding to it just gives her the strength to forget you even more, really.
Author itsmyfault Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 So what are you saying? She talks to me for what? to check that she is over me? Even though she wants friendship? Tbh, I'm NC anyway, Its only fair I give her the chance to be happy again. She knows where I am if she needs to talk or wants to see me.
I'm nuts Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 She doesn't care, you broke up with her, in her eyes it's your fault, she's just sticking two fingers up at you.
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