domple Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Ok not sure which section to post this under BUT if you have read some of my previous posts I went out with a girl with PTSD. It came as quick as it went and was the most intense and natural relationship I ever had (dated for just over 2 months). She could not handle being with someone and broke down. Now I do not wish to be with her after espically after I took off the so called rose coloured glasses she had a pretty messed up life and values which I would never accept. Now I have met someone and she is nice, she ticks the ideals and my therapist said I should persue it because this appears to be a healthy relationship. I do want to see her and things are going forward, is she the one for me well not sure its only been a couple of weeks. But I am having trouble getting over the previous relationship in the sense of how naturally everything clicked. I never ever felt the so called spark until the last relationship and its hard getting to know someone after feeling it. Has anyone been in that scenario where they are trying to readjust to normal pace to get to know someone. I know that fast pace relationships can fizzle just as quick as they begin. As I said I do like this girl and want to see where this goes but in my head things should be progressing faster but I am trying to emotionally slow down. Of my friends that have met her they all see this new girl as a really nice great girl with her head screwed on. Yet I keep finding stupid excuses to not see her again (with things that have never bothered me before in previous relationships. Yet I want to see her. I can say this relationship is taking longer to start as she has been single for 4 years and not even kissed anyone till I came along. So from fast to slow. This ones a keeper and u don't want to lose someone over stupidities
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