yogaguy Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Hi. I was wondering how to know when a girl you like has a friend that likes you instead? I was getting what I feel were positive "signs" (quick glances, she walked by me singing, "talk to me," gave me a sign she needed "help" by her locker as I walked by her by making noises like she was having trouble, and talking to me in general conversations and telling me she had "feelings" similar to mine (i.e….I told her I wear my heart on my sleeve, and she said she did too), for a few months. Her room mate then talked with me one day and asked me if I had kids, was married, or had a girlfriend. I said no to all of these questions except the girlfriend question. I told her I "kinda have one." I know this is a stupid way to answer her because either have one or I don't. I do have one, but it's been rocky for about 6 months or so with her. And so I wasn't really sure how long it would last. I also got the feeling what she was asking was leading somewhere (i.e….getting info on my availability). After I said this to her she said "that's good," in a casual way. The girl I liked then came over and asked her room mate what we were doing, and her room mate said we were just talking. After this conversation with the room mate I noticed the "signs" all but stopped from her. I would still talk with her, but she didn't seem to be as happy or excited around me. I obviously feel it was about my "kinda having a girlfriend" comment with her room mate. I could be wrong, but I have a strong feeling that was the case. Her not being around anymore "all of a sudden" just didn't make sense. Her room mate though would still say hi to me and would compliment me, such as when I got a new haircut she would walk by with this girl and say, "nice haircut Randy" to me. And she would also come up to me at work and say "Hi Randy, hey where does this instrument go back to?" And I answered her the wrong way by saying something dumb, and she just laughed and said, "your funny." She also was wearing this tiger hat that covered her ears with tiger paws. She was walking outside with it on and she saw me coming in. She stopped and said hi to me. I noticed her hat and I said "that looks cute on you." She then made a tiger "growling" noise at me, and I said that was cute. She also seems to walk by me instead of "around" me when she comes inside a room. What I mean by this is, when she walks in the work room, instead of going straight down the aisle in front of her to get to the place she wants to go, she seems to walk down a few aisles and walks by me and says hi Randy to me. So that's the scoop. I know it could just be her way of expressing herself in a friendly, silly way. She is young (25). I'm 41, and more on the shy and quiet side. I was just wondering though if she could be hitting on me? I guess I was also wondering if this could be possible, if she knew her room mate that I felt was giving me "signs," might have liked me, would she still show interest in me? Thanks
charlietheginger Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Ill put it blunt The waitress calls everyone honey i
Author yogaguy Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 Hey charlietheginger, I never thought of it that way. That does make sense know that I think about it. I guess I just got caught up in her cuteness.
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