Ruska Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 (edited) I'm 24 and he is 26. We've gone out few times over the past month and a half. Nothing really couple like. This past weekend it became couple like I guess. By couple like I mean we cuddled on the couch and made out. He asked me to stay the night. I declined (I had to be at work at 7am the next day). We are obviously sexually attracted to each other and I want to safe so how do I bring up the 'are you clean' conversation without it being awkward? I don't want to ask too soon and seem like I want to rush into sex but I also don't want to wait too long and us end up being 'in the moment' and then killing the moment by bringing it up. Edited November 14, 2012 by Ruska
cloudatlas Posted November 15, 2012 Posted November 15, 2012 Obviously if you're planning on starting an actual relationship with him - it's good to bring it up at the beginning. I mean, if you guys are together together, then having sex is going to happen. Just be straightforward with him, like, I like you and this weekend was great, but I need to know you're clean before I stay the night. It shouldn't be awkward, you're just making sure & keeping yourself safe. If he doesn't respect that, he's not worth to be sleeping with anyway.
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