Ginaa Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 I am the dumper of a guy , and now i miss him. Does this mean I still have feelings for him? I broke it because It felt "off" at times.
KatZee Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 You felt "off" at times? What does this even mean? Can you elaborate as to what you felt while in the relationship? You sound young, maybe you jumped the gun or maybe you were truly unhappy and you're just missing the comfortable connection you guys shared.
Author Ginaa Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 like I had all those symptoms of not missing them at times, and simple things like kissing felt just wrong at times,and I dont really know how to explain it all. I just kept having doubts and wanting to end it for no good reason really. Now I just keep trying to justify why and I cant come to a good enough conclusion.
KatZee Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 We're you attracted to him? That's a huge thing that some people seem to think is irrelevant and unimportant in a relationship. I had an ex that I wasn't attracted to but he was good to me, did a lot for me, was faithful etc., but at the end of the day I couldn't be with him. There was no attraction no spark, he felt like a friend not a lover.
Author Ginaa Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 define what you mean by attraction? Then maybe I can tell you. yes with all that matters in the inside of a person however , he was perfect, but..yeah define attractioonnn
KatZee Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 define what you mean by attraction? Then maybe I can tell you. yes with all that matters in the inside of a person however , he was perfect, but..yeah define attractioonnn Lol attraction--- are you sexually turned on by him? Does he get you going? We're you able or unable to keep your hands off him? This is what differentiates a friendship from a romantic relationship.
Author Ginaa Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 ha thankss. Half and half. Sometimes yes deffinatly but other times no, I didnt want to be physical and I dont know why. Its not that he repulsed me as such, but I sometimes thought Im not really that attracted by his looks. if you get me...
KatZee Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 ha thankss. Half and half. Sometimes yes deffinatly but other times no, I didnt want to be physical and I dont know why. Its not that he repulsed me as such, but I sometimes thought Im not really that attracted by his looks. if you get me... So you're not attracted to him. He doesn't have to "repulse" you in order for there to be a lack of attraction but tho would absolutely be a reason you don't want to be in a relationship. No attraction=friendship. You're probably better off letting him go so he can find someone who likes him "like that." 1
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