Ginaa Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 how do you know if you are meant to be with a person or not ?
todreaminblue Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 how do you know if you are meant to be with a person or not ? When they are not around you , you wish they were, when they smile your world tilts for a while, and when they stop smiling you want them to smile again, when you speak they listen like they are your best friend, when you know something in your life is changed, and its through knowing who they are your life is rearranged, when you realise that your feelings are the same, whether they are near or really far,you would travel to them by boat plane train or car.... when you know for sure goodbye will the hardest word you have to say, and just when you say it you are already praying its not long that they are away......deb
Author Ginaa Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 oh thats sweet! but surely that feeling doesnt always last in a relationship. If its meant to be, will it always be like that ? I mean will there be some times where you come back to moments, or feelings like these?
todreaminblue Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 oh thats sweet! but surely that feeling doesnt always last in a relationship. If its meant to be, will it always be like that ? I mean will there be some times where you come back to moments, or feelings like these? I think it is possible to nurture a relationship i feel that is where commitment comes in to the mix...if you commit to someone it should be with the thought in mind, that you will do what you have to do to remember the reasons why you are together when you hit rough times....and that will happen, it wont be all sweet, but the good times strengthen the relationship to handle the rough times, and the rough times strengthen the relationship because you go through them together.........i guess it is what memories you choose to hold close to your heart.....i would say the good memories are meant to be remembered not let go.....in my relationship they were let go........i am not with that person now......i gave it my best.......and because of that i can now let it go........i still stand by what i believe in........your relationship is as good as you want it to be if both are committed to making it work.....takes two and actual effort to make feelings stay....and it is worth it ....best wishes ....deb
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