andysmiff141 Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 (edited) I will start off by saying that the breakup is still fresh and it has only been a month. We were together for 4 years and the breakup was a bit of G.I.G.S from her and a lack of commitment from both sides. I am 23 and she is 22 and we both have a lot of stuff we both want to do before even thinking of settling down like travelling etc. The breakup was out of the blue for me but after time to reflect, i think she has made the right decision for BOTH of us. She did give me the "maybe in a year, we could get back together after have travelled or whatever" and we both agreed we wanted to stay friends. My main problem right now, my logical thoughts and my mind is saying i dont want to get back together with her and dont think it would work. All the issues would still be there and it wouldnt work or end as amicably. At the same time, i cant help but think about her constantly and im missing the company and friendship. She seems to have already moved on and is enjoying the single life, she said she wants no commitments but i know she will be seeing other guys without the relationship status. I could have easily broke up with her and gave the same reasons but she i guess had more guts than me. I have already booked up to go travelling and im excited but cant shake her out of my head. My main question is, i dont want to get back together currently and everything she said i accept. Why cant i just let this go and move on and accept its what we both need for the moment ? Edited November 13, 2012 by andysmiff141 spelling
Author andysmiff141 Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 I am in the same boat. Sorry to hear that Jwhite. Are you in the same boat as you realise the relationship is over for now and is for the best ? I am mainly missing the friendship and struggling to accept how fine she is with the situation supposedly. I still want to stay friends with her but not sure if it can work. How about you, are you still in contact or did you go NC ?
puzzled1 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Somewhat in the same boat! Gigs, then wanting to work things out, then lets stay friends. (F that) I just went NC all the way, deleted mostly everything about her and just trying to focus on myself.
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