SpecialtyProvider Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 I had one girlfriend for 4 years. She cheated on me on my birthday of all days and we broke up two years ago. I've dated many girls since then all of which really never went past the first date. I recently met this girl who is literally the girl of my dreams. I am a recent college graduate, I'm 22. I saw her on campus about a year ago and I thought she was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen. We went on two dates so far, I asked her for drinks on our first and a lunch for our second. I told her I thought she was the most beautiful girl too lol. Anyway we like barely kissed first date and didn't hold hands at the end of either date. Didn't really kiss end of second date either, but whatever. I think this physical stuff will come with time. We just went out this past Sunday. I've been asking her via text but I kind of want to call her to surprise her but I'm really nervous that 1. She won't answer (99% of the other girls haven't ever answered), 2. She won't be interested, 3. What if she says no?? I was thinking of us going bowling. My day off is Friday (she's a senior in college) and I was hoping to take her Thursday night. I'll be quite blunt: This is the first girl I've taken out that I've put this much thought and consideration into what we should do. Normally I never care, but I really care a lot lol, is that weird??? How do I proceed? What do I do? It's been about two weeks. Very short time, I don't want to move too fast, I'm scared of this too. we just got lunch/dinner on Sunday btw. ahhhhh man I'm so conflicted and confused
charlietheginger Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 You sound like a nice guy.. shes gonna chew you up spit you out Wipe her feet all over your back .... You sound sweet and want to put this girl on a pedestal she may or may not want it.... tough call on advice but you seem overly excited .... Don't get to excited with big expectations.. Big expectations often mean big let downs.. Just go with the flow
Gold Pile Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 call, don't text. Be open to stuff other than bowling, maybe she'd suggest a certain place or activity. Be prepared to be turned down too. Takes 2 people wanting each other, one sided never works.
Author SpecialtyProvider Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 I did neither. I think giving her some space is the best thing. We texted a little but I'm getting the feeling I'm not giving her enough space so instead I'll just call her Friday after a couple days of radio silence. ??
ScreamingTrees Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Also, if you have a fetish, don't tell her about it, until you sleep with her, to which chances are very low. lolwut? (10 characters)
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