jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 This scared the **** out of me. I amost used my old profile to contact her. I know I should not contact her or anything, but this is gut wrenching! I dont know what to do now. I was doing good with the whole NC thing now I have seen something I didnt want to. I want to contact her SOOO bad and ask her WTF. It seems like this is too soon for this to happen
veggirl Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 Well you're apparently on there as well so... she is just lonely, she will rebound to dull the pain of a break up of a 5 yr relationship. 1
Author jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 Well you're apparently on there as well so... she is just lonely, she will rebound to dull the pain of a break up of a 5 yr relationship. My profile was on from a long time ago. But, you dont have to log in to check. Today is the day after the two week mark. Exactly. Her username is a name I gave her a long time ago. It feels like she made a deadline for herself after the two week mark that if I didnt call or try to see her then she would move on. I dont want her to do something that would prevent me from taking her back! I feel like I need to tell her that
Author jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 what is POF? is that a dating site? a NSA sexual encounters site? what is it? any way you are broken-up, right? then just ignore it and try to move on... apprently she is trying to move on. Good luck! Its a dating site
charlietheginger Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 She sounds desperate no serious women use pof Pof is like wal-mart Serious women pay a few bucks and join a real site
Author jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 She sounds desperate no serious women use pof Pof is like wal-mart Serious women pay a few bucks and join a real site Desperate of what???
blue_jay_bird Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 (edited) POF is a joke don't worry about it. Its a desperate place... I tried it out, what does that say about me. AND yes im dumped and desperate. If anything will come from it. It will be a couple bad dates. And if you think its going to result in her contact someone and having sex with them, she's not the type of person you want in your life. Edited November 13, 2012 by blue_jay_bird
flitzanu Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 My profile was on from a long time ago. But, you dont have to log in to check. Today is the day after the two week mark. Exactly. Her username is a name I gave her a long time ago. It feels like she made a deadline for herself after the two week mark that if I didnt call or try to see her then she would move on. I dont want her to do something that would prevent me from taking her back! I feel like I need to tell her that you'd seriously tell her such an arrogant statement? you don't want HER doing something that would prevent YOU from taking her back?
Author jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 you'd seriously tell her such an arrogant statement? you don't want HER doing something that would prevent YOU from taking her back? I dont know if me wanting her not to have sex with anyone else is being arrogant. Would you be able to forget if the same happend to you?
flitzanu Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 I dont know if me wanting her not to have sex with anyone else is being arrogant. Would you be able to forget if the same happend to you? she dumped you, right? i don't think she's gonna be that concerned about YOU taking her back. and if you dumped her, then you're the one that told her you didn't want her.
charlietheginger Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 Jwhite What were saying is pof Is a free site serious people use match eharm pay dating sites Pof she will get messages from Some creepers have a few perverts Angry guys rejected from real Life situations she will have a few bad dates and Prob miss your relationship Pof makes women relize how many Losers are out there and value One worth keepin
Author jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 she dumped you, right? i don't think she's gonna be that concerned about YOU taking her back. and if you dumped her, then you're the one that told her you didn't want her. Yes she dumped me. I know she is not concerned about me taking HER back, but that is the problem. It seems like it is way too soon for any healing to have taken place inside her, especially at 730AM when was the visit this morning. SO the only thing to me she is trying to do is dull the pain and force the feeling for me out of her. This is not good. If she goes about this wrong then it could damage her AND me. I love her an I do not want that!
Author jwhite Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 Jwhite What were saying is pof Is a free site serious people use match eharm pay dating sites Pof she will get messages from Some creepers have a few perverts Angry guys rejected from real Life situations she will have a few bad dates and Prob miss your relationship Pof makes women relize how many Losers are out there and value One worth keepin AMEN brother. I hope she is strong through this
KatZee Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 This is not good. If she goes about this wrong then it could damage her AND me. I love her an I do not want that! Why do you think anything she does from here on out has anything to do with you? I hate to be so harsh, but whether it's 2 weeks post split, or if it was the next day... you're the ex. And you can't give her the control to "damage you" with whatever she decides to do with her life from here on out. Stop looking at her profile, get off POF. That's a garbage site full of players and hookers. 2
NavyAirTraffic Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 KayZee is right, let it go! Mine joined pof the SAME DAY she broke up with me!! Your ex has made her intentions clear, she's trying to move on, let it go. Or put your skirt and makeup on and contact her while she's trying to/is meeting other men.
flitzanu Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 Yes she dumped me. I know she is not concerned about me taking HER back, but that is the problem. It seems like it is way too soon for any healing to have taken place inside her, especially at 730AM when was the visit this morning. SO the only thing to me she is trying to do is dull the pain and force the feeling for me out of her. This is not good. If she goes about this wrong then it could damage her AND me. I love her an I do not want that! that's out of your control dude. her banging other guys is her choice, not yours, and you have no way of stopping it. that's what breaking up is. you need to worry about YOU, not worry about her.
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