jnj123 Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 My guy and I have had a rocky road for the last two months.... He hasnt had much experience in relationships so anytime things wouldnt go his way he would try to call it quits..... just as a little boy tactic basically.... two months ago he did it, and after i decided to give us some space for a week to clear our heads, we talked and decided to be friends and work on us because we both really care about eachother and want to make this relationship work... it was going great for a month, he was always calling me, we were always hanging out, then out of no where, he got mad at something so ridiculous, stopped talking to me for a few days, then after talking things out, he started up again with calling me and texting me constantly... for two weeks he was doing this but i was trying to give myself some sort of distance because he hurt me....so i wasnt contacting him....... again, he got mad at me for going out drinking, for doing this, for doing that, and started ignoring me for many days.. he finally answered, we started talking slowly everyday, then when i finally asked him why he was mad he started yelling at me about little things, said we are never going to work, that i keep on doing things that bother him, that i keep on messing things up and he hates the way i act...... yet at the end of the conversation he said we were still friends..... talked briefly everyday for a few days, but i was the one to iniated contact....... then one day while texting had stopped for a few hours, he started texting me.... then he called me.. had a great conversation.. didnt talk for the rest of the day...... the next day when i text him he didnt answer....... then that night i text him something about rumors about our relationship, he and i talked and everything was reassured but he got mad at me i would even think he was associating with any other girl so soon after our break up..... i told him i believed him but he was still mad... i let him be for the entire next day but when i contacted him the following day he ignored me....... i saw him out that night and i just let it be like he didnt exist and enjoyed my time on my own........ the following day he was out with all of our mutual friends and i continued to act like i didnt know him even when he kept moving in closer to my friends and i..... he got very drunk and he usually never drinks...... after he left mutual friends kept telling me he kept bringing me up, asking if i said anything about him, asking what i said, if they talked to me, saying that they followed their advice and let me go because they were confused...... he kept looking at me, asking about me all night but has yet to contact me.... im confused because i love him with all my heart but i finally put my foot down and decided not to play into his game.... i havent contacted him for days which is a miracle for me....... i dont want to move on, i dont want to let go, i keep thinking that nc will clear my mind and make him realize what he has.. friends are telling me if he is asking about me it is clearly working, but i just dont know anymore. ... mind you both in mid twenties
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