Tech76 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 What would you you do? This has been going on for years. She did have some money stashed away that I suspect will run out any day now. A usual excuse is that I don't speak a second language so I didn't get the job. I need your advise here. I feel like I am being taken advantage of.
WithoutYou Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Is someone else supporting her? Don't give her any money or pay for anything that she needs to live. Eventually, if she's not dependent on someone else, she'll have no choice but to get a job. It's called tough love.
Author Tech76 Posted August 5, 2004 Author Posted August 5, 2004 We are living together. Free rent and utilities for her.
WithoutYou Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Tell her that she has a month to find a job - any job - and to start contributing at least something to the household, or else she's out on the street. Either that or you have to live with it.
kyndrad77 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 She's got something going on on the side, an inclome that she may not be telling you about. I had a friend who was an escort and never told her B/F. She always said she had it saved. When she said she ran out of money, what she had really done was quit being an escort. Not saying that is your case, and hope not to offend, but you never know.
Dork Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 you're being used, big time dude. kick her out and get it over with.
Author Tech76 Posted August 6, 2004 Author Posted August 6, 2004 Yeah, I probably am. Why I do this, I don't know. I seem to have a knack of getting together with women that don't work.
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