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Ok First Date, Emailed him yesterday


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Hey guys, just need a place to write down my thoughts.

 

I went on a date with a guy this past weekend. I wouldn't say it was great by any means. There was no awkward silence, conversation was very easy. I really liked him as a person.

 

Now the problem, I think I didn't present myself in the most positive light and I sorta deflected some of his questions, because I guess going into the date, i wasn't really serious about meeting him and didn't properly prepare myself. In short, I wasn't really ready to talk about myself. Or put myself out there. I asked him questions, but it wasn't any of the get to know you questions. although I was telling him things, it just felt like it was mostly small talks.

 

Heck, he probably thought I wasn't interested. We even went dutch on everything!

 

Needless to say I haven't heard back from him, so yesterday my friend encouraged me to drop him a line and I did.

 

I basically put myself out there, told him a little about how I felt and let him know that I still want to get to know him better.

 

I don't know if he'll contact me back, but it sure felt good to express what I was thinking and feeling. Hopefully, this isn't the end.

 

Wish me luck!

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