dexterfan Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 So I have recently met this girl from OLD that I really like and it seems to be mutual. When does one change their status from single to seeing someone? Do you think a woman would be put off If I did it before she does? Keep in mind we only had 3 dates but it went great.
sweetkiwi Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 3 dates? Don't change it till you have the exclusivity talk.
Tara247 Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 So I have recently met this girl from OLD that I really like and it seems to be mutual. When does one change their status from single to seeing someone? Do you think a woman would be put off If I did it before she does? Keep in mind we only had 3 dates but it went great. Dang, man. You can't go and change it like that. She has to agree to be in a relationship with you first.
veggirl Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 I assume you're refering to your dating profile? Why don't you just hide it or make it invisible? 2
mammasita Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 Dont change it until you talk. I would be put off completely if a man did that.
rocketman122 Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 like vegetable girl said, just hide the damn profile. when the time is right you will know. just stop logging in. it makes you seem desperate. I dont know about you people, but I never had the "exclusive" talk. its just known that we dont date other people. you can sense it. I never had problems with girls dating others at the same time and they knew I wasnt either. IMO some things dont need to be said.."wanna go steady" pff-get the ef outta here. maybe its a US thing. 1
veggirl Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 like vegetable girl said, just hide the damn profile. when the time is right you will know. just stop logging in. it makes you seem desperate. I dont know about you people, but I never had the "exclusive" talk. its just known that we dont date other people. you can sense it. I never had problems with girls dating others at the same time and they knew I wasnt either. IMO some things dont need to be said.."wanna go steady" pff-get the ef outta here. maybe its a US thing. LOL vegetable girl! Anyway, I do have the exclusive talk and if you are online dating, OP, you will need to at some point I think. But not NOW, it's tooooo soooooon! I do agree that you can guage whether or not she is dating other people w/o necessarily asking.
Jane2011 Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 I don't think I've ever had an exclusivity talk with a guy either. I either instinctively knew he was still in the market for others, or I knew he was very focused on me. I have had one instance where the guy was exclusive with me for a good chunk of time but then sort of shifted to not being, but I was quite aware of it then, too. It wasn't vague or mysterious. It wasn't necessary to talk about it, really, as the writing is usually on the wall (in my experience) in either case.
Author dexterfan Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 We already had the talk and are not interested in multidating and focus on each other. Just new to online dating and now sure what the normal thing to do is . I'm probably overthinking it. Who cares about some silly profile status right?
Silly_Girl Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 like vegetable girl said, just hide the damn profile. when the time is right you will know. just stop logging in. it makes you seem desperate. I dont know about you people, but I never had the "exclusive" talk. its just known that we dont date other people. you can sense it. I never had problems with girls dating others at the same time and they knew I wasnt either. IMO some things dont need to be said.."wanna go steady" pff-get the ef outta here. maybe its a US thing. Agree, agree! 1
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