Wesker Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 So I went out to a sports bar/club on Saturday night with a couple buddies. I notice a couple women(mid to late 20's), who were dressed up hot, but could tell it was mostly makeup. They weren't with anyone, and were pretty much shooting every guy down that came up to them. They actually moved to a table near me, and naturally I smiled at them, said hi. Wouldn't even acknowledge me, or any of my buddies were actually there. When they weren't looking at their phones, they would sometimes go out on the dance floor, only dancing with each other of course. Always with a "check us out' look on their faces. Even dudes on the dance floor were getting shut down. One of my friend's went out there, and was practically grinding on them, yet he was a ghost to them in their eyes. Now I could really care less about this. I have no interest in stuck-up chicks like that. I do have to wonder though, what there is to gain by being all stuck up, and shooting down every guy that comes up to ya. These were actually decent looking dudes too. Is that ego boost really all that fulfilling, considering you'll prolly end up leaving alone that night. Maybe get a free drink, or 2? I really just don't get some of these stuck-up women sometimes. Reminds me of someone at work that would dress up kinda slutty, yet give you a "what are you looking at" look when being checked out. Thoughts?
sweetkiwi Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 i guess this is all subjective isn't it. Well. For me maybe i'm dressed up sexy at a bar with my sexy friends. But we're not shooting guys down. Or going home with anyone. We're having fun. I have seen these types of women out and its usually the ones with a hot body and a terrible face that act like this. And with no personality to boot. Now. Just because a group of girls shoots down all suitors doesn't mean they're stuck up. Should they talk to at least the top 20 percent of men first? They don't have to talk to anyone really. The women here in italy are the perfect example of this. 90 percent think they are hot stuff and will not look at anymore, man or woman, unless they have money or fame. I tried dancing with girls in the disco here and got the distiest looks! It made me feel confused and then irritated. I wasn't even grinding on them. Yet.
KraftDinner Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 OP, you say those chicks will probably end up going home alone. That's probably their intention. They are way more about attention than picking someone up. I'm a woman and I've never really been like this (I'll talk to anyone, in a friendly and non-flirty manner, to be polite). But I don't really see what's wrong with it. They want to get attention..well, that's cool. Just cuz a hot woman is around doesn't mean she owes it to anyone to be chatted up. Don't like it? Don't give them the satisfaction of paying attention to them. Simple.
Lonely Ronin Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 Don't give them the satisfaction of paying attention to them. Simple. This..... This usually has one of three effects. 1. they don't care 2. they get pissed 3. they come up to you
KraftDinner Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 This..... This usually has one of three effects. 1. they don't care 2. they get pissed 3. they come up to you True! Or: 4. you completely forget about these strangers who have no interest in you, get on with your life and give yourself the opportunity to get to meet someone who is actually interesting If, when I was single, I saw a hot hot hot guy who clearly wasn't interested, he'd take up precisely 5.2 seconds of my life...look, appraise, get distracted by something more interesting. I wouldn't think he owed it to me to talk to me.
Under The Radar Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 OP, you say those chicks will probably end up going home alone. That's probably their intention. They are way more about attention than picking someone up. I'm a woman and I've never really been like this (I'll talk to anyone, in a friendly and non-flirty manner, to be polite). But I don't really see what's wrong with it. They want to get attention..well, that's cool. Just cuz a hot woman is around doesn't mean she owes it to anyone to be chatted up. Don't like it? Don't give them the satisfaction of paying attention to them. Simple. Yep, one of my friends is currently enrolled in an MBA program in the city. He told me today that there is "Hot" girl in class who is from Israel. All of the guys (except him) are constantly vying for her attention; she ignores every one of them. Interestingly enough, my friend ignores HER every week. The result? She is proactively making attempts every class to converse with him. It's all about the ego and attention.
Lonely Ronin Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 4. you completely forget about these strangers who have no interest in you, get on with your life and give yourself the opportunity to get to meet someone who is actually interesting I was talking about how they usually take it, based on my half dozen experiences like this.
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