Sophie99 Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 me and my boyfriend of 2 years split up about 10 or so months ago and I feel ok about it now, I'd say I'm over it and I don't think about him all the time or feel heart broken anymore! I've moved on and we haven't spoke or seen each other at all in months, he could have emigrated for all I know! haha But recently (as in the last week or so), I dream about him EVERY night! From me chasing him to us getting back together. I don't know why because it's not like I've suddenly started thinking about him all the time, I haven't noticed any difference in the way I'm feeling. But with these dreams, it makes me want to talk to him, see how he is - but that is a bad idea overall I know nothing good would come of it! What is this all about?!
KatZee Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I have no idea, but I'm in the same position as you. 6 months out of an almost 3 year relationship and emotionally I'm fine. I still think of him but there's nothing behind those thoughts. No sadness, nostalgia, it's pretty much indifference, HOWEVER! I've been dreaming about him like crazy! I didn't even dream of him when we broke up! Not dreams of being with him, but just dreams of catching up. Actually EVERYONE from my "past life" has been showing him. Him, his cousins, his FATHER! I had one dream last week where my ex and I met up, and his father showed up and I remember thinking "his dad's looking at me and remembering us together as a couple" and then I stood up and his dad and I hugged and I was like "I've missed you so much!" It's really weird, lol.
Author Sophie99 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 I have no idea, but I'm in the same position as you. 6 months out of an almost 3 year relationship and emotionally I'm fine. I still think of him but there's nothing behind those thoughts. No sadness, nostalgia, it's pretty much indifference, HOWEVER! I've been dreaming about him like crazy! I didn't even dream of him when we broke up! Not dreams of being with him, but just dreams of catching up. Actually EVERYONE from my "past life" has been showing him. Him, his cousins, his FATHER! I had one dream last week where my ex and I met up, and his father showed up and I remember thinking "his dad's looking at me and remembering us together as a couple" and then I stood up and his dad and I hugged and I was like "I've missed you so much!" It's really weird, lol. I never dreamed about him when we broke up either! It's so odd :S
KraftDinner Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 From what I understand, the significance of dreams lies not in what you're dreaming about but how it makes you feel. Disregarding the fact that the dreams were about him, what were your feelings? Did you feel abandoned, lonely, anxious....?
puzzled1 Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Ive been dreaming about it alot lately also. Only reason I wake up so early is because she is on my mind and I want to stop thinking about her. Its been less than a month since we have been broken up though.
Author Sophie99 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 From what I understand, the significance of dreams lies not in what you're dreaming about but how it makes you feel. Disregarding the fact that the dreams were about him, what were your feelings? Did you feel abandoned, lonely, anxious....? probably lonely more than anything, accepted when we got back together in the dreams
KatZee Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 What if you don't feel anything? I wake up and go, "wow that was weird." and just move on with my day lmao.
I'm nuts Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 It's probably your subconsciousness, but it's worth googling, the meaning of dreams, it's an interesting read.
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