SoulSearcher22 Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Just saw pics of her and the bf she went back to after me. Ugh, after 3 months no contact and rarely thinking about her, I saw some proffessionally taken pictures of them that a mutual friend liked so it showed up on my feed. **** HER! sorry, had to let some of this out..
I'm nuts Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Don't believe all you see and read, believe me, 99% of it is all total BS.
Tree_Salmon Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Don't believe all you see and read' date=' believe me, 99% of it is all total BS.[/quote'] He means its all just bull. You don't know if they are happy or anything. In fact, when people move so quick its usually because they are forcing something to be there.
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 Yes, I think they are trying to force something...and I dunno if they are as happy as these pictures indicate. Even after a long period of no contact...it just feels weird seeing this girl with this other guy. She was mine and only did these things with me...and now him. As of right now, as far as I know, it's a long distance relationship. I think they visit one weekend a month. She went back to him without telling me whatsoever. We go to the same college and she shows back up a month later in the parking lot telling me there hadnt been a day since we last talked that she hadn't thought about me. She didn't want to discuss what she did. We just starting talking and flirting again for the next week or so. I never asked about her BF. Then she just stopped again. 3 months later to today, i see these proffessionally done pictures and they just look really happy. What I thought we were.
I'm nuts Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 What do you mean? Everything, or most things are fake, fake words, fake emotions displayed in pictures, all lovey dovey, she gone back to him, just that tells you it's not perfect, all that glitters aint gold.
I'm nuts Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 ..it just feels weird seeing this girl with this other guy. She was mine and only did these things with me...and now him. It always is, is not a nice feeling, but in the end you just think, well FU and move on
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 I know, but it was doing good until I saw these pics. I'll be fine again soon enough because it's been so long now..or it seems like it. But I fell for this broad...And if she came back again, idk what Id do or how Id react. I wanna say I wouldn't take her back..but.....
I'm nuts Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Take her back? you'd be mad, more nuts than me
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 lol i know. I know she wouldn't do that anyway. After having done it twice, she must think I absolutely hate her. And it's not far from truth. Resentment.
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 Just seeing those pictures just almost destroys me inside. I hate that dude. Hate.
flitzanu Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 what this says to ME is, you need to block her friends on facebook, or at least delete them. "mutual friends" are not mutual, it's one or the other, and if they are still friends with your ex, it sounds like it's one of HER friends. delete that friend and save yourself the torture.
Liz2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 You were the rebound if I recall. I'm sorry for what's happened. I'm sure she really cared for you but that bond was just stronger or something and she probably didn't tell you as she knew she'd hurt you.
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 You were the rebound if I recall. I'm sorry for what's happened. I'm sure she really cared for you but that bond was just stronger or something and she probably didn't tell you as she knew she'd hurt you. I appreciate this comment very much. Just wish she would have atleast told me.
witmadskilllz Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I appreciate this comment very much. Just wish she would have atleast told me. sometimes things are better left unsaid
suladas Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 F**k it man it ain't worth worrying about. I seen my ex in person with a new guy not long ago it hurt a ton but it made me let go completely after that. Ya she lied to me, told me a bunch of BS but I don't even care anymore I just let it go, don't even hate her or anything, just let it all go and move on. Sure closure and getting answers would be nice, but just give it to yourself, there's nothing better then feeling free again.
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 F**k it man it ain't worth worrying about. I seen my ex in person with a new guy not long ago it hurt a ton but it made me let go completely after that. Ya she lied to me, told me a bunch of BS but I don't even care anymore I just let it go, don't even hate her or anything, just let it all go and move on. Sure closure and getting answers would be nice, but just give it to yourself, there's nothing better then feeling free again. I hear ya bro, thats what i'm going for. But ugh...that feeling sucks at first...lol
suladas Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 I hear ya bro, thats what i'm going for. But ugh...that feeling sucks at first...lol Ya it sucks, hurts like hell and is tough to accept. But it's the best way I think.
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