leslie64 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 hey, i am completely in in love with my best friend. we have been thru a lot lately. we hooked up about a year ago, justkissing no sex cause i thought we shoudl sleep on it , I know i'm a moron. the first night we hooked up he named 4 or 5 times he wanted to kiss me and times he thought about us. well after much thought he decided we shoudl stay friends. he was scared to ruin friendship. we still spent a lot of if not all our time together. every once and a while we'd have a huge fight about "us"where he would tell me he doesnt like me. then every once and a while he'd say lets do it. it's ok if we do ect. But i never took any of it seriously cause in the back of my head all I hear is i dont like you like that. We co on vacation, spend holidays together. but as soon as we get close we have a big fight. the last big fight we had he stopped talking to me. We stayed away from each other for months, which is something we have never done before. He invited me to a family party and I said no we're not friedns anymore I dont ven know you. he tried to act like nothing was wrong and he was just busy. We went out to dinner and talked. Things were better but it was so awkward between us. then slowly he began to call more and more. and now we started to spend alot of time together. I'm just confused cause he still knows how I feel about him adn he jokes about me loving him and stuff like that. I'm trying to just be his friend but it's hard. I love him so much adn love being with him and he knows it. Which is what kinda bothers me. If it was the other way around I would keep my distance and not go on vacation and whisper in the persons ear . i wouldnt do those things. Has anyone had a similar experience. does the other person ever come around and tell you how they really feel. He's told me he doesnt know what he would do if we did date and broke up cause he'd lose his girl and best friend. We are really really close and it scares me too but i wanna give it a shot. I just hope he will. what do you think?
cinnamonstix49 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Leslie, I don't know if this helps, but here's my story-it's kinda similar to yours-it was a post at one time... at least you know you aren't alone in this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=41684
detroitgurl_91 Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color][color=black][/color] How do I deal with missing my bestfriend? I have a bestfriend that I met at school we were both new shes a girl. Now that its summer break I miss her very much. I can't visit often because shes long distance. And I don't believe I'll Be able to go back to that school. And it not often that I meet someone especially a girl that I can really cope with. I don't want to have to find another bestfriend I want that one to always be. I don't think I ever missed someone so much and I just don't know what to do>
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