Loss Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Hey guys, So me and this girl have been dating for about two months late this summer. Dates were going ok, and although I could tell she liked me I could see that something was bothering her. I tried my best but eventually we had a talk and she said that while she liked me she didn't think we should get serious, and hinted that we shouldn't hang out again. We stopped talking. Few weeks later (this past week) she texted me and we started talking again. We went out this weekend and I felt that whatever was bothering her about me before is still there and that she's not sure if she wants to meet again. She asked me if I was upset with her after our talk few weeks ago and I told her I wasn't, but that was the only thing we discussed regarding our relationship. I'm not sure what to do now. Should I ask her out again this week? I guess I don't know if I should keep trying or get over her again. I think she has some feelings for me since she contacted me but she's not sure. I do like her but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable by asking her out if she doesn't feel the same. What do you guys think I should do?
phineas Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 i'm kinda an a-hole when it comes to time wasters. I would of asked her what she wanted with me when she text'd. If she said "date" i'd consider how much time i'd already wasted on her before she bailed on me, then i'd invite her over for movie night & tell her to wear something sexy. because far as i'm concerned the clock doesn't reset & 2 months is all the time she is getting from me until I see something in return. Now if she said she wanted to "talk" i'd tell her we can talk all she wants while we bask in the after glow & invite her over. If she tells me "friends" I tell her I got enough friends & i'm a busy guy so if she has nothing more to offer me to stop wasting my time. Essentially, once a woman walks out of my life after i've invested time & energy on her there is only one way I let them back in & that's by them proving to me their not looking to waste my time again & there is only one way for them to do that. To summarize, a woman who wanted to get with you, wouldn't act this way. She'd get with you. period.
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