PyroBunny Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 So this does fall in the dating catagory for me. So after this weekend going out with my boyfriend and a couple of other friends to a bar; I realised that sh*t!!, my bf who always told me he doesn't really dance, really can dance and quite well! Now me, I'm actually a clutz when it comes to dancing, it almost borders on fear when the other girls pull me onto the dance floor to dance with them... I feel like I'm too tightly wound and have no rythm, nothing! But I really, really want to learn so that I can dance with my boyfriend (he ends up dancing with the other girls because he knows I can't/feel uncomfortable) and have a good time with the girls. How, what, where do I start? I just feel so self concious when I'm on the dance floor with people looking at you...so I don't really want to start there? How did you all learn? Or are some people just born with rythm?!
GirlontheLam Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I think some people are born with rhythm. And other people just don't care. Your problem sounds like you feel like everyone is looking at you. It is mostly a confidence problem. Dance when no one is looking. At home, in your car and so on. Or how about at the gym? As soon as you stop worrying about the dancing, you'll be able to "just dance." (For the record, I dance well, but hate feeling of everyone staring at me on the dance floor. I just wait until there are a few more people. ) 1
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