theLWord Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago because she lied frequently, we were in a long distance relationship for 1 year, I didn't trust her. I'm pretty sure its hurting me worse than her. I broke nc about four days ago and quickly remembered why the relationship won't work, and why not to break contact. For whatever reason, tonight has been so hard on me. I woke up at midnight and its almost 5am and just haven't been able to stop crying. I'm just really tired of not being able to sleep, missing what we had, and just crying. I'm tired of thinking about it and wishing things could've been different or replaying things. I know I need to focus on myself and I'm trying and time makes it better, and some days I feel like the pressure on my chest is lifted. Just days like this make me feel like I'm being setback in my progress. Please tell me these days stop reappearing soon!! I'm just ranting, does anyone ever feel this way?
todreaminblue Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I went through a funk for quite few months after my ex and i broke up.I cant tell you when the crying will stop for you.I feel you just have to ride the good days with the bad.I think not trusting someone is far more debilitating than sadness.....distrust is like a tumor, it just grows with time.....and a break up is a deep cut.......you can heal it, might take a little longer at least it wont grow any worse than what you feel now......it can only get better....might not seem like it to you......but you are already have a little brightness in there, it will continue to get better but you have to take the rough days as just that....just another bad day.....tomorrow could be totally different....i wish you the best.....deb
mano Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 i am going through the same situation but yes i believe it will take time to get better, i would say you made da rightt decision . my bf lied to me frequently too n being with some1 where there is lack of trust i know dude how it feels, its a continuous emotional turmoil n such insecurities n that pain of being lied to when you are so sincere n honest to them. i spent 3 years in that torture but now i know the right thing is to just end it. u deserve some1 honest
Author theLWord Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 And if it wasn't hard enough, I think my dog is having strokes (he's about 14.) He'll most likely have to be put down. This just sucks.
River Rain Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Oh my gosh...when the ex broke up with me back in September, my dog was close to death too...it all comes at the same time. But you can be strong! These days seem to go on and on right now, but one day you'll wake up a little less sad and you'll have more motivation to do something more. Focus on your dog, that got me through a lot of torturous nights.
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