Emmy86 Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I'm having a hard time dealing with a break up (which we all are!) My ex ended it with me but we are still in love and all our feelings are still there, long story. I did post about it a few days ago. We have tried no contact but just cannot do it, we both want to be in each others lives. So a month since we broke up, he came over yesterday and we spent the day together, just as friends. It went well, we had a laugh, we even talked about how our friendship would work and in the future n such. He looked so good aswell which didn't help! It was hard not to be with him, the hugging, snuggling up and kissing I really missed, which is normal. I dont know if it was too soon. I just cant get my head around that one day he will love someone else, he will have feelings for someone else, maybe marry them, have children and I thought that was all meant to be with me I still love him so much and cant see that ever changing. 1
nat5 Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I understand how you feel. This seems to be how me and my ex are, as soon as we see each other the feelings are so strong. But he has got a new gf, hes told me himself shes not me, and he keeps telling his mom shes not me. Its heartbreaking cos i know we could work but for some reason he wont let us. We were together 4.5 years. But hes said he cant see me again cos it confuses him. I know i have to move on but its so so hard
catluvr2 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I know exactly how you feel! Boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me 4 days ago because he's depressed and stressed out with school in which he attends 3 hours away. He say's he can't handle a relationship right now but we are continuing to talk daily. I can't help it that I keep on checking his facebook and I can't help but think how I will act when that day comes that he will fall in love with someone else that is not me =(
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