larklane Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Cliff notes version.. We dated for a couple of months in 2011 he ended things and we picked back up in Dec 2011 we've been casual but I developed feelings but we never discussed where we stood (we also never slept together). We didn't see eachother over the summer but beginning of October he texted me and we started chatting and we went out to lunch then he invited me to his company HH where he let out of the bag that he had a girlfriend for three months. At the point I decided I had nothing to lose and we had a long discussion about our feelings, I told him how I wanted to go from casual to serious and that I really cared about him. Long story short he told me that night that he regrets his decision for dating the girl he is with. Two days later I sent him an email apologizing for storming off from the HH but told him that I felt that we had an opportunity for something great but I guess our timing was off. He emailed me back told me that he cared about me a lot and that our conversation probably isn't finished. We talked later that week and he said that he wanted to talk later...it's been three weeks now. He's texted me under the guise of asking me work related questions (things he doesn't have to ask) his company does work with my company so we have a working relationship. He's also requested to work on another one of my upcoming work projects. The reason he said that things never became serious between the two of us according to him is due to the work relaitonship he's nervous about things not working out. I'm trying to do everything that I can to assure him that we can remain professional besides its not like we work for the same company. I'm just a wreck because he clearly has left the door open and I feel like all I can do is sit and wait for him to end things with her.
NavyAirTraffic Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I feel like all I can do is sit and wait for him to end things with her. Wow, he must be a better looking, richer, more loving, more giving, more interesting version of Brad Pitt?? I mean he has to be if you're willing to wait in the batters box until he's done giving it to this other woman...
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