robaday Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Went to festival used to go to with my ex last weekend, its in her town but ive always gone even before we were together. Didnt see her myself but she bumped into my best mate by mistake. 1st thing she said was sorry about deleting you from fb, i couldnt handle seeing pictures of him (me). She told her that it was better me and her dont talk right now. Feel so sad about it. I dont want her back, but woulda been so great to have a chat/beer and catch up. I know I have to move on and am doing so. Guess its times like that where i really would love to be just friends with her.
Mcnulty Posted November 13, 2012 Posted November 13, 2012 It's crap i know. Saw my ex, she looked up at me, looked down and crossed the street...r upset me, thought to myself, god I miss her, would love to be her friend. Twist in the tail is this...I'm now friends with her, we text all the time, it's like when we were together, she makes me laugh and is clever and self depreceating as always....BUT, she blocked me on FB these last couple of days, even though we weren't friends on there again...her ex,(my ex mate) turned out to be a psycho..he's continuously trying to get her back and she tells me this. I don't want her back believe me...I just want to be friends, as you said, but I feel she's blocked me and has relented. Reckon she's back with him or is talking to him..if this is so, he hates me and she couldn't even mention anyone with my first name, he was that insanely jealous. She will have to stop speaking to me completely, this dick wouldn't tolerate it. What i'm trying to say, is protect you and be careful what you wish for...I've got it, but think it's all gonna go tits up...so I'm gonna back right off and eventually will, I think have to stop contact again... Be careful what you wish for.
Author robaday Posted November 13, 2012 Author Posted November 13, 2012 It only really bothered me because Im not sure why she would go to the trouble of telling my friend we shouldnt talk - I havent contacted her in 3 months... doesnt make sense to me at all
Mcnulty Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 She said this because it's what she feels is right for her and you were in the close vicinity.
Author robaday Posted November 14, 2012 Author Posted November 14, 2012 Guess it stung, Im really not the kind of creep who would go over and try it on, or do anything to freak her out. Ive respected her space, but shes spoken to a few of our mutual friends now about me, as well as posting crap about me on facebook.......Ive just let her be for three months
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