lmarie Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I don't know if I belong here or on the breakup thread Im posting here because I really want another chance. My ex and I were together 6 years and have 2 babies 1 and 2 years old. In the last few months he feels that I did not appreciate the work he did for us and felt that I did not love him. I on the other hand had issues with the way he addressed things when he was upset. That would be to go downstairs drink then come up and attack me with it. This approach cause me to build up a wall get defensive and of course seem like I don't give a crap which wasn't really true but when you have someone drinking then screaming I don't know what reaction he would expect. When we have fought he has said he was leaving but never really did. We got in a fight 3 weeks ago I don't even remember how it started I had been nice all day really came out of nowhere. The next day he left and went to his sisters house. I was so angry at him I sat in a chair and just let him walk out big mistake! For a few days I was really angry and bitter and probably not the nicest person but about a week later I broke down. I couldn't be mad anymore I love him with all my heart and everything in this house reminds me of him and our life together. So bring on the crazy desperate texts ugh. I wanted him to talk to me. The following Friday we talked and we ended up having sex. The next night he went to help a friend said he would be back and then texted to say he wouldn't be which broke my heart. I know a big reason for our fighting was him feeling unloved and un appreciated so I have been working hard to open up letting him know how I feel and that I am very much in love with him. He ignores a lot of what I say. Then Friday night he sends me a text asking what I am doing that turned into some text flirting and ended with him over here. The next morning I sent him a cute text wasn't anything pressuring just something sweet and I get a response he needs space. I just don't know what to think or do anymore. I know that I am miserable and want him to come home to his family more than anything in the world. I can't even get through a day at work without running for the bathroom to break down. I have tried asking him to dinner something no pressure just to have some fun and I asked him if he would like to come have dinner with us tonight but he said hes too busy today. He said he is planning on stopping by at some point but doesn't know what time. He has said similar things before but then said he was too tired and wasn't coming so who knows if I will see him or not. He says he loves me but I don't see how he can really love me but not want to try and work this out or be around me. I don't know what else to do
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