gabriel345 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 So my ex and I were supposed to go to a date but I did the horrible mistake of inviting him over before the date out of excitement I guess, it was an impulse that I almost immediately wanted to take back but it was too late. He came by really late and I was furious and let everything on my mind out. Mostly it was why he didn't call and such. I did apologize for that and he knew that I was angry, he even said he understood. I know it's really bad though, I seemed desperate way too much than I really am (this really bugs me). After that I called like I said I would for our date and texted very neutrally about it. Even told him that if he wanted to cancel it was ok but I preferred that he told me this instead of going m.i.a. Four days has passed and he hasn't called. I know he was busy those days but I don't think it was as busy for him not to give me the straight forward answer I asked for. He's making me wait for no reason? We've been apart for almost three months now and had a 2 year relationship. I really wanted that chance, did I screw things up?? What should I do?
coffeebean201 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I had a response for you, but accidentally deleted it! He showed up late and didn't call first. Is he seeing someone else? Or other people? You have been apart for a while now. Watch his actions, they seem to be silence. This one could be over.
Eddie Edirol Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 You did screw this up. You flew off the handle and probably showed him you havent changed, and in his mind, theres no reason to give this another chance. its just as well, if he showed up late, he wasnt really interested, and not contacting you for 4 days just confirms that he wouldnt want to talk to you after you went off on him. You would think that while you were desperate and trying to impress, that you'd know to control your emotions! He wasnt busy those few days, he just didnt want to talk to you. IMO. Let this be a lesson for you for the next relationship. Stick a fork in this one.
Author gabriel345 Posted November 11, 2012 Author Posted November 11, 2012 oh no... really there's nothing I can do to redeem myself? I mean, that's pretty harsh way to go and I was looking forward to that date, this is so bad.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 oh no... really there's nothing I can do to redeem myself? I mean, that's pretty harsh way to go and I was looking forward to that date, this is so bad. Actually, it could end up being good. Save the date for someone who actually wants to go on it.
Author gabriel345 Posted November 15, 2012 Author Posted November 15, 2012 So I called him, yeah, I know but that ending was too much for me so I took a risk and called. Turns out that he was pissed about the text, he was even more distant than before yet agreed to meet. He asked me what I thought the date was and I told him what I had told him before that it was a slow try to things. Then, he explained that it was more like a normal date. At that point, again, I was furious because now he was backing out like it was a joke. I asked him why would he think that and say he missed me? He replied that he had not ripped his feelings for me, it wasn't like that, that he did miss me. We then started arguing about past problems and attitudes from both parts, yet I tried to calm things every time it began to clime up. Long story short, he asked me out again. I told him I would call and let him know. Things are pretty clear now for him (of what I want) so what is this?? I dont know what to do, I don't want to call, go and then not hear from him again until I look for him. Yet, I do want to go, he has finally done something but I'm afraid that it's only a one time thing and I'm left waiting again. Please help
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