john 07 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I have been dating a girl for 4 months now. We talk on the phone,text, go on dates. We see each other about once or twice a week. We kiss, hold hands, have sex. We do everything a dating couple would do. I asked her 3 months ago if she wants to be my GF and she said she needed time to think. She was scared I was going to leave the country once my work extention was over. I just extended my contract 3.5 years and i told her last month. I asked her again to be my GF last night after a dinner date and she couldnt give me a straight answer. She gave excuses like if we date officially there can be fights and expectations. I know shes not seeing anyone else but me. I see her every saturday. Not sure what to do. I really like her and want to commit. Any advice would be great.
Irish81 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I've been going throught the same thing for 7 months now. I can't tell if this going somewhere or nowhere?
starla33 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I have been dating a girl for 4 months now. We talk on the phone,text, go on dates. We see each other about once or twice a week. We kiss, hold hands, have sex. We do everything a dating couple would do. I asked her 3 months ago if she wants to be my GF and she said she needed time to think. She was scared I was going to leave the country once my work extention was over. I just extended my contract 3.5 years and i told her last month. I asked her again to be my GF last night after a dinner date and she couldnt give me a straight answer. She gave excuses like if we date officially there can be fights and expectations. I know shes not seeing anyone else but me. I see her every saturday. Not sure what to do. I really like her and want to commit. Any advice would be great. I say dump her ass and let her run after you at this point. If you like someone YOU WILL commit. Shes either not that into you or is emotionally unavailable. Sorry 1
Author john 07 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 I've been going throught the same thing for 7 months now. I can't tell if this going somewhere or nowhere? Yikes 7 months! Im barely going through this 4 months and your on 7. Must have some major patience. Did you special someone actually say NO but still stuck around? Kinda whats happening with me except she said she needs time instead of a straight NO.
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