kamio Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 So we go to the same college and have been around each other constantly. We exchanged email address, but never followed up on them. Recently we had a great chat at college during study week and spoke for an hour or so, before he finally had to left. Actually, when I first saw him, he told me that he was heading home and hung around to chat to me for an hour instead of racing off, like he normally does. During our converstation I told him where I normal hang out on sunday arvos. He added me as a friend on facebook this afternoon, so we are in contact that way. We are going camping in late November with a whole bunch of people. I am kind of excited for it. Anyway, this afternoon I was at the normal spot with my friends and a bunch of others. I was caught up in a converstation with my bestfriend and didn't even notice that he had rocked up. He was talking to three of my other friends and when I noticed him, I almost died of shock. I kind of thought that he liked me - we have been flirting and I got the biggest hug at an end of semester break up lunch for "winning the Young Person of the year award". (Which I did) - but I didn't actually expect him to turn up on sunday, though I had deliberately told him to see if he would turn up. When I did finally notice him (and I have no idea how long he had been standing there) I waved. He waved and smiled back, continued the converstation with my friends or 30 seconds and then walked off without saying anything to me and telling my friends that he 'had to pack.' What is going on? He rocks up where he knew I would be, says hi to my friends barely even acknowledges me other than a quick wave and a smile. What is going on??? And is there anything else that I can do/should do to try and figure out if there is something there?
Sabian Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Hard to say. At first when I heard that he showed up after you told him where you would be on Sunday it looked pretty good, but since he just waved I don't know. Maybe he was shy around your friends? Or maybe he was hoping he would get to talk to just you instead of you and your friends? Invite him to something casual. Something like: "Hey I'm going down the street for something, want to walk with me?" or just invite him for a casual lunch. You said you two have been flirting, what kind of flirting? Also, you never really said. Do you like him? I'm assuming so or else you wouldn't post this.
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