Coolchica94 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 There's this guy I used to work with, and we flirted a lot when we were both single. Now I don't work there anymore, and he has a girlfriend. This week he's still been messaging me online though, and he's started the conversation all 4 times. The first time wasn't too inappropriate, he just said he wishes I still worked there b/c he doesn't have anyone to flirt with/ pick on now. And he said he misses me. The second day, he starts out by saying "hey hot stuff" and when I asked him what he's up to, he said he was thinking about me. Later in the same convo, he said the next time I come into visit my old job, he's going to give me a huge hug, might grab my butt and maybe "lay one on me". He knows my mom hates him, so he acts like he'd do this stuff to get a reaction out of her if she's with me. Then he asked if I would hug him back if he hugged me. The next day, we were somehow talking about how I've never had a BF or really kissed a guy before, b/c my parents are really strict and wouldn't let me. So he asks me if "I wouldn't love to kiss a man." Then he starts talking about "letting him hold you and rub you, then his hands will get carried away and they'll be all over the place. Then you'll be having sex and I bet you go wild when you do." Then later he flat-out asks me if I've ever seen a guys ****. I feel really bad at times, because while I don't exactly encourage this, I have way too big a crush on him to tell him to stop, and a lot of times I do answer him and go along with it. But would you consider any of this to be cheating on his g/f, because she definitely doesn't deserve to have him do this behind her back.And I clearly don't have the self-control to tell him not to. What should I do?
jimloveslips Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 I clearly don't have the self-control You need to change your ID name... Then later he flat-out asks me if I've ever seen a guys ****[?QUOTE] Jeezuz what are you, 12?
mammasita Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Is he showing his girl what he's saying to you? Would she be shocked to know what he is saying? Well then, yes - its inappropriate.
Spectre Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 Cheating? Not sure, but you damn well shouldn't be texting any other guys about anything sexual.
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