celia1990 Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 ok there's rumours going around that he likes me and he has asked me out to lunch and coffee a few times. we get on very well but he sends VERY mixed messages. his friends love me, some of them fancy me but most of them just want us to get together and hint at it all the time. we spend lots of time together but i never know where i stand with him and worry that he just sees me as a friend. he makes loads of eye contact and i catch him staring, although he hasn't kissed me although i could have sworn that he had the opportunity many times by now... i'm annoyed by the staring over at me and acting like he likes me and then doing something really weird the next minute. here's 2 examples: example 1: in a group he made fun of how a cake i baked looked horrible but tasted great. he said i needed to improve the presentation of my cakes and then joked that i'd eventually find a man that would marry me. maybe if i put a good enough ad in lonely hearts. !!!!!???!!!!! example 2: a mutual friend of ours who is actually hoping to get us to hook up came over the other day to say hi to us and he joked that since his tie matched her nail polish that they should be a couple. ahhhhh does he like me or not? is he flirty teasing or just trying to make it clear to me that he doesn't want to ever be with me? i need to know as if he's trying to put me in the friend zone then i need to stop getting my hopes up and making a fool of myself! thanks for any advice or insight!!! greatly appreciated!
thegreatesthumphrey Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 What have you done to let him know you like him?
Author celia1990 Posted November 11, 2012 Author Posted November 11, 2012 What grade are you in? This sounds like high school nonsense. Ask your classmates if he "likes" you. Oh - better yet, slip him a note in Algebra class asking him if he likes you, and instruct him to check off the "Yes" box if he does, and the "No" box if he doesn't. Good God. valid point.
Author celia1990 Posted November 11, 2012 Author Posted November 11, 2012 What have you done to let him know you like him? gone on dates with him, hang out with him a lot and when i was going to a movie night at his he was saying he wasn't sure if his friends were coming or not and i said that i would rather it was just the 2 of us anyways. also, when out one night i repeatedly danced with him and asked him to come out for fresh air with me. i think i've made it as clear as an old fashioned girl like me can make it. and yes, i guess i'm being immature here.....
thegreatesthumphrey Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Does everyone even his friends know that you like him... and did you decide that you like him a little while back?
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