Not sure

[wtv]

I guess this is just venting more than anything because I dont expect much help from a website lol but basically I am just about to turn twenty. I have had one semi-serious relationship but Im single again and in college. I guess, here is some background info on me. I am good looking...I have an eight pack, lots of girls compliment me on my body, I have big arms, big legs, big pecs, etc. I am jacked...mostly because I compete in powerlifting so it just sort of comes with the territory. My face is alright. Basically physcially speaking I dont think there is anything wrong with me, in fact I wonder if that may be the only thing in my favor. Girls only seem to want me as a friend. I am a genuinely nice guy, I dont like to party though, my idea of fun is reading a book, or watching a movie, or playing some sort of game, or just relaxing with friends, or just sitting and thinking. A lot of people describe me as the mind of a child with the body of a man, or as a puppy. I feel like this must be why I have so much trouble with girls. So my first question is how do I project more manliness. Mind you, I think that I am manly. I wrestled all through highschool and I was very good, I had my knee dislocated three times, once during a match, and I still technical falled the kid after I popped it back in. I work twelve hour days monday through friday on a farm, on top of my second job sealing driveways over the summer. Once I had a pry bar go through my arm, but I just wrapped it up and kept working. What I am trying to say is I am damn tough, and perfectly capable of taking care of a girl, but how do I show this? Also, lately I have had this fear that perhaps I will never meet anyone, or at least, I will end up settling for somebody that I dont love. Has anybody else ever been my age and everything worked out okay with a similar scenario? Also...I am active in clubs, I am on the coed softball team, the book club, a chrsitan group, and the quidditch team (im a tad bit geeky), so its not as if this is what I do all day. I dont sit at computers sulking on forums, I guess I just feel really depressed today like there is something wrong with me or something so I felt like writing about it

[taya]

I guess this is just venting more than anything because I dont expect much help from a website lol but basically I am just about to turn twenty. I have had one semi-serious relationship but Im single again and in college. I guess, here is some background info on me. I am good looking...I have an eight pack, lots of girls compliment me on my body, I have big arms, big legs, big pecs, etc. I am jacked...mostly because I compete in powerlifting so it just sort of comes with the territory. My face is alright. Basically physcially speaking I dont think there is anything wrong with me, in fact I wonder if that may be the only thing in my favor. Girls only seem to want me as a friend. I am a genuinely nice guy, I dont like to party though, my idea of fun is reading a book, or watching a movie, or playing some sort of game, or just relaxing with friends, or just sitting and thinking. A lot of people describe me as the mind of a child with the body of a man, or as a puppy. I feel like this must be why I have so much trouble with girls. So my first question is how do I project more manliness. Mind you, I think that I am manly. I wrestled all through highschool and I was very good, I had my knee dislocated three times, once during a match, and I still technical falled the kid after I popped it back in. I work twelve hour days monday through friday on a farm, on top of my second job sealing driveways over the summer. Once I had a pry bar go through my arm, but I just wrapped it up and kept working. What I am trying to say is I am damn tough, and perfectly capable of taking care of a girl, but how do I show this? Also, lately I have had this fear that perhaps I will never meet anyone, or at least, I will end up settling for somebody that I dont love. Has anybody else ever been my age and everything worked out okay with a similar scenario? Also...I am active in clubs, I am on the coed softball team, the book club, a chrsitan group, and the quidditch team (im a tad bit geeky), so its not as if this is what I do all day. I dont sit at computers sulking on forums, I guess I just feel really depressed today like there is something wrong with me or something so I felt like writing about it

 

i dont no whats really the problem ,,,hun am 21 and am just going out on dates now am not really dating anyone at the moment am just seeing what i really want ... i work go collage and do some of the same stuff as you, i quess what am saying is its ok to be our age and dont have a full future yet we are really young this is the time to look around and see what you want so its ok if you dont have a girl yet ,go out there and look around and see which girl would be good for you the world isent running away your only 20 still a baby lol and yes you will find a great girl ..and you sound like your very hot lol:p;) stop worrying and start living out your younge days because 10 years from now your life wont be the same

Edited November 11, 2012 by taya