blue_jay_bird Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Is their a difference between telling your ex "only call me when you want to give us a second chance." and asking for a second chance. ( there isn't is there)
GLDheart Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 It is totally leaving the door open for them. ie "walk on in and all over me anytime". I'm more of the opinion that you broke up for a reason... What makes a second chance any different? Oh, and the burden of proof is on them.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted November 11, 2012 Author Posted November 11, 2012 (edited) It is totally leaving the door open for them. ie "walk on in and all over me anytime". I'm more of the opinion that you broke up for a reason... What makes a second chance any different? Oh, and the burden of proof is on them. Yeah i feel like a idiot, a emotional idiot. But what if the reason we broke up is he's a idiot that doesn't know how lucky he was. A 25 year old boy that has only been with their girlfriend since 17. A idiot thats GIGS.. This is way i think a second chance will make a difference. That's why i believe a second chance is possible. Look at all the excuses i make. He broke up with me with and blamed me for the end. Say that it's cause im not done school, im not independent, i don't speak with convection. He didn't even talk to me about what he wanted. Just stating i don't want to marry me, and doesn't see a future with me. I have to remember it's not me, it's him. Edited November 11, 2012 by blue_jay_bird
GLDheart Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Yes. I completely agree with you. The bottom line is that he prefers to go through life without you. All the reasons "why" really don't change that simple fact. This is why everyone is telling you that it is now time to take care of, worry about, and look after yourself. He made his choice. Now he gets to find out if it was right for him. Whether it was or not, you are moving on.
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