martina34 Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 in summary: bf broke up with me 4 mo ago, i broke nc last week, it was not well received. i thought maybe that was the kick in the butt that i needed to get over him. today, i'm still finding reasons to hope we'll get back together. i feel it in my gut that it's the right thing. i want to do something crazy (like in a movie) that will show him that i feel that way. but he's made up his mind. so i just want to stop feeling hope. any thoughts on how to lose hope of getting back together?
Mint Sauce Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 start to hope for something new? Sounds like an egg-and-chicken reasoning, but you have to fill the emotional void left from the BU with something new, rather than letting your ex fill it up again when you break NC. prepare an OLD profile, especially the "I seek" text. Making a wish list of what you want can be therapeutic. Sure, the first version my look like a description of your ex, but try to add something new, something else that you would find interesting in a partner.
NavyAirTraffic Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Have you grieved, really grieved?? Read the "Get over them fast" link in my signature. Focusing and grieving about your loss really does wonders.
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