sunnygirl200 Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 I met this guy over the summer with whom I worked with. We hit it off and hung out but I had to go back home. He knew he wouldnt see me in a while but I told him I would be back in town in November. We kept in touch through txt messages and a few phone calls. In the last few weeks he told me he missed me and couldn't wait for me to get back to town. Then, the place he was working at closed down and he had no money. He thought of moving away but he decided to stay to try out a new job he got offered. Well, I finally made it back into town on Monday and he knew. He told me to stop by where he works so I did. It was great to see him and my old friends. He gave me a big hug and kiss and told me a little about how he just got promoted to bar manager of the new restaurant. He said things are finally looking up for him. He knows I'm in town for the next 5-6months. Well, since Tuesday night, he has barely txted or even made an effort to come see me! He did txt me last night to say he wanted to see me but he got his car towed (which was the truth). So here's my question, what is going on in his head that he can't take one evening to see me? I know this new job is consuming his time but I feel if he REALLY missed me that much and/or wanted to see, wouldn't he make the effort?? Is he acting this way because he knows I'm in town so he doesn't feel the need to txt at all? I just have no clue what goes on in a guys head, so someone please help! What should I do?
thegreatesthumphrey Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 You have always got to be cautious unless you are in a strong committed relationship. You dont necessarily have to act on that caution or have it sway your opinions, but you need it there to protect yourself. Patience is also a virtue. I know it is probably killing you, but if you just sit back and wait the truth will reveal itself. It could be possibly that this guy actually has another girlfriend, but on the other hand he could just be having a lot going on in his life right now with his job then you said his car was towed. Assuming can drive a person crazy. Be confident in yourself, spend time on yourself, and you will find out what you are looking for.
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