confused and lonley Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 just a brief story before i ask my question. i have been with this guy for 8 years. we have 3 kids together and one on the way. he meet someone online and wants to be with her. but she hasn't not come down yet. i have been with him since we have broken up and he refuses to tell her about it. should i stay friends with him or what should i do? i love this man with all my heart but i have accepted that he doesn't want me that he wants this other woman. i am just so confused. and don't know what to do about this.
rachelcarney Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 It sounds like right now you are second-place in his heart. You don't have to put up with that, he won't ever respect you if he thinks that you're wiling to be his "back-up" girlfriend. Try to stay friendly for the sake of the kids, but I think you should stand up for yourself and tell him it's either you in first-place in his heart, or not at all.
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