IT Geek Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 How did you find out that your wife/husband was nor being faithful to you? I found out when I received an email from AT&T saying that she has used all the texts on her plan and that I should consider moving her to unlimited. WTF? She never texts..she hates it. So I pull up the online account to find hundreds of texts (and calls) to a number I know nothing about. So, at this point I decide that snooping is warranted. Since I own a domain and run the email server, it was easy to get into her email and find emails from Facebook about EVERY IM that they had sent back and forth. It was a guy from her work! They were talking about getting each other so hot, spending a weekend at "the lake", etc. So, suspicion confirmed. So what's YOUR story?
Phoebe Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 I found incriminating evidence in his jean pockets, which was stupid on his part as I did all the laundry.
brokenheartedntx Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 Many have read my story under "Indidelity" Here is a brief summary of the events up to me finding out and D-Day My wife went on vacation with the kids to her homestate and called about a week later stating that she was not coming back. After about a week, my oldest daughter called and told me that she wanted to come home and that she did not like it that mom was dating. WTF!!! I immediatley called my wife and she denied it at first, but then came up with the usual "just had dinner with and old friend" line and there was nothing to it. Of course me being the one that paid the bills, i checked out her cell phone bill and had found calls and texts several months back with a number I did not recognize. I looked it up and found that it was an old boyfriend of hers. Anyway we stayed separated for a few months with me constantly checking her phone records and begging her to stop talking to him. I finally talked her into letting me into seeing her and the kids. I went to visit and after a few days there ---D-Day! she confessed and said that she was contacted by her old flame via Facebook several months back and the rest is history. We reconciled, but she say she still has feelings for the OM, so I am just counting the days before I file for divorce. Long story but I know it is over and its time to move on.
Earthgotlow Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 I found incriminating evidence in his jean pockets, which was stupid on his part as I did all the laundry. Not really funny but it kinda is, we aren't the smartest:D instant messenger yahoo for me I was giving our sons a bath at the time and nude pictures popped up
Cedarman Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 My wife left her secret gmail account open on her computer. When I snooped, there was only one person she used this account for - a young guy she golfed with. When I confronted her, she denied it. When I told her about the gmail account - she got angry that I snooped. FINALLY, she admitted that it was a texting relationship. That was 2.5 years and thousands of lies ago. Now we are separated after a rollercoaster 2.5 years. 1 week after separation she admitted that it was a physical affair during the summer of 2009, ending Nov 2009. The scumbag OM, got married in March 2010, so he was cheating on his fiance with my wife - as well, he had another girlfriend on the side and left his first wife with a 1 year old and a three year old. A real piece of work.
revitup Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 My STBXWW left. I read your stories on here. Mystery solved.
Texsec Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 She was acting strange, just finished total bedroom remodel and she was not excited about it. She went to a Co. party and told me it was employees only, but , I knew other spouses were going....Got into her iPad that I saved for and bought as a gift...Voip (internet phone) with one name and number in it...set to forward calls to her phone from a normal number....Also found the hidden bank account details and the 9000.00 she had stolen from our joint account by taking cash advances on her Amex then paying the bill out of our account.....Sh&t hit the fan when she got home...total fumbling, deer in the headlights lame response...... 1
standtall Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I feel for you dudes..every post on this thread feels like a kick in the nuts.
Sasu Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 (edited) I suffered this in 2 year LDR ,I used to worship her and wanted to marry for real.Drama started when she put some guy's name in her profile with little hearts.I thought something was off,I confronted .She denied saying its just her friend,time went by and she got rude,getting irritated by my everything we used to do together.I snapped and told her shes being stupid.She said i don't trust her .To which i said I do and won't say anything on this.. What i see after a month of my blind trust ? she made that guy her boyfriend ,replacing me.Telling me I am a stalker and its my fault for knowing this.its just online thing..sigh .The new thing didn't worked out and since then its one guy after another .Now she loves me and she knows I am still open for her and ready to forgive. But nah she wanna explorer her options more ..so I am just in NC for now.. Edited November 11, 2012 by Sasu
standtall Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Now she loves me and she knows I am still open for her and ready to forgive. But nah she wanna explorer her options more ..s That's why she doesn't want you..be a douchebag to her, and she will come a running.
ComingInHot Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 Husband's exOW emailed me six or eight months after he dumped her. She was REALLY mad about it apparently and she also decided it was ALL my fault she didn't "get" him. A year and a half more of her harassing me until my husband had attorney draft ceace & decist letter. Crrraaaaazzy to say the least.
Sasu Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 That's why she doesn't want you..be a douchebag to her, and she will come a running. Yeah i figured,I acted like that & it was working great.She was calling me more often.But when she told me she want to be single for some time coz of her studies and her family problems,I was lost and just couldn't continue being mean..so chit chat normally couple of times and now in NC ..2 days later a big festival in state so lets see ..
PoopHappens Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 I accidentally left a sound activated recorder App going on my iPod when my daughter and I went away on a weekend. Here's the real kicker, to help my wife's mother build a large playhouse for my wife's niece. Guess if I was a bit upset when I found out he was invited into my house at that time. Mocking me for being too stupid to figure things out.
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