Marine0311 Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 Long story short, i am a Marine shes in college. We brokeup because i think she had GIGS and wanted to experience college single. Dated for 2 years, first love, etc. Well, after about two weeks of her randomly telling me she hates me and doesn't want to see me, I called her out of the blue after I got my official orders for my deployment. Idk why I called her, but we ended up talking for a while on the phone. Over the next 3 days I'd come back from work with missed calls from her and when I did call her back she'd be very warm and is excited for when I come home for a month. I will be home in two weeks and she wants to hang out. As of now, I decided to go no contact for the weekend (if I make up my mind I'll just tell her Monday I was training all weekend so she doesn't wonder why I ignored her randomly). I don't know how I feel about this anymore. I do want to see her because it'll be my last time seeing her for a year, but after all the mean things she's said I don't know if I want too see her. Plus I saw pictures of her with other guys and I know she's been with other guys, I don't think she's slept with them, but I have a gut feeling she's fooled around. I don't think I'd be able to hangout with her and play it cool without questioning her about other dudes or just feeling uneasy about it the whole time. I love her still, and I know this is something people get over, but I almost feel as if I were cheated on (if she's done stuff with other guys) basically broke up with me for two months, and then did whatever, now she wants to see me and do all these bf/gf things when I'm home. I don't know, has anyone been in a situation like this, should I see her? Any advice?
oracle Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 Don't let the distance play tricks on you. We always want what isn't readily available to us. You get back to that comfortzone.. the routine kicks back in in no time.. Then its round two of history repeating itself. Sounds like it only has one place to go... messy Long story short, i am a Marine shes in college. We brokeup because i think she had GIGS and wanted to experience college single. Dated for 2 years, first love, etc. Well, after about two weeks of her randomly telling me she hates me and doesn't want to see me, I called her out of the blue after I got my official orders for my deployment. Idk why I called her, but we ended up talking for a while on the phone. Over the next 3 days I'd come back from work with missed calls from her and when I did call her back she'd be very warm and is excited for when I come home for a month. I will be home in two weeks and she wants to hang out. As of now, I decided to go no contact for the weekend (if I make up my mind I'll just tell her Monday I was training all weekend so she doesn't wonder why I ignored her randomly). I don't know how I feel about this anymore. I do want to see her because it'll be my last time seeing her for a year, but after all the mean things she's said I don't know if I want too see her. Plus I saw pictures of her with other guys and I know she's been with other guys, I don't think she's slept with them, but I have a gut feeling she's fooled around. I don't think I'd be able to hangout with her and play it cool without questioning her about other dudes or just feeling uneasy about it the whole time. I love her still, and I know this is something people get over, but I almost feel as if I were cheated on (if she's done stuff with other guys) basically broke up with me for two months, and then did whatever, now she wants to see me and do all these bf/gf things when I'm home. I don't know, has anyone been in a situation like this, should I see her? Any advice?
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