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I know this might sound weird but I've been trying to find a needy man for almost a year now and no luck.

 

I've encountered nothing but the studs or bad guy types, which I reject very fast.

 

Where are them found; the ones who are quiet, hardly ever said no and are naturally needy? At least they don't give you hassle and I won't have to undergo a heartbroke and I'll always have the upperhand in the relationship.

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What are the best places to find them at? Would it be at a church because I've tried a library and science club but still no luck.

 

At times I feel as if what I'm looking for is like a unique pearl found on the bottom of an ocean while I'm endlessly trying to get to it.

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sound like you want an ego boost? need to feel in control??? need to feel wanted? do you have daddy issues i wonder.........
Kind of but I also I'm trying to avoid getting hurt or having a heartbroke. But yes I like being in control thus why I never settle for studs not even when I was in high school.

 

Do you know where do I find him?

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Kind of but I also I'm trying to avoid getting hurt or having a heartbroke. But yes I like being in control thus why I never settle for studs not even when I was in high school.

 

Do you know where do I find him?

 

Get your head out of your ass, it might make things easier.

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BTW no I don't have daddy issues. Say I asked a simple question. Is that so hard to answer?

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keep going to libraries and science clubs and computer clubs. youll have to ask him out though and teach him style cause their style sucks.
Ok, I'll keep trying different libraries and science clubs. He's gotta be there somewhere.

I got no problem asking out a man and teaching him.

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I know this might sound weird but I've been trying to find a needy man for almost a year now and no luck.

 

I've encountered nothing but the studs or bad guy types, which I reject very fast.

 

Where are them found; the ones who are quiet, hardly ever said no and are naturally needy? At least they don't give you hassle and I won't have to undergo a heartbroke and I'll always have the upperhand in the relationship.

 

Funny sh*t! Lol

 

Online dating is your best bet.The guys who are not that attractive are usually very needy & become clingy almost immediately.Goodluck, because you're gonna need it....those guys come with their own set of problems.

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If you're in a college class and you see that guy sitting kind of by himself maybe with some of the books for the class and he's quiet and shy looking?

 

Good bet that he's a needy guy...

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Ewww...who wants a needy mate? They are clingy and smothering.

 

And to answer your question; this forum.

 

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If you're in a college class and you see that guy sitting kind of by himself maybe with some of the books for the class and he's quiet and shy looking?

 

Good bet that he's a needy guy...

 

I wouldn't bother him he is probably the same

Guy that goes down to the dorm luandry room

And steals womens panties

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I know this might sound weird but I've been trying to find a needy man for almost a year now and no luck.

 

I've encountered nothing but the studs or bad guy types, which I reject very fast.

 

Where are them found; the ones who are quiet, hardly ever said no and are naturally needy? At least they don't give you hassle and I won't have to undergo a heartbroke and I'll always have the upperhand in the relationship.

 

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And to answer your question; this forum.

 

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watching Big Bang Theory

 

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I know this might sound weird but I've been trying to find a needy man for almost a year now and no luck.

 

I've encountered nothing but the studs or bad guy types, which I reject very fast.

 

Where are them found; the ones who are quiet, hardly ever said no and are naturally needy? At least they don't give you hassle and I won't have to undergo a heartbroke and I'll always have the upperhand in the relationship.

 

Good lord...you do not want this...and this is coming from a guy.

 

Eventually, you will grow tired with his lack of defiancy. Or, his friends or family will pick on the fact that you are seemingly calling all the shots and they try to convince him to stand up to you...or just leave you.

 

What you need is a "relationship". Think about that term for a minute. By definition, the mutual dealings, connections, or feelings that exist between two people.

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I know this might sound weird but I've been trying to find a needy man for almost a year now and no luck.

 

I've encountered nothing but the studs or bad guy types, which I reject very fast.

 

Where are them found; the ones who are quiet, hardly ever said no and are naturally needy? At least they don't give you hassle and I won't have to undergo a heartbroke and I'll always have the upperhand in the relationship.

 

What the he11....why is having the upper hand in a relationship that big of a deal? Its sounds as if you are a dominatrix.....

 

It sounds as if you are looking for someone who wants a new mommy.

 

If you are very attractive...then go for a guy who would be someone who knows they would be lucky to get someone like you...then you might get the devotion/pedistal you want.

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You should opt for a man with balls. Someone who knows how to lead and not just follow and follow. A man who makes firm/sound decisions and acts upon it. A strong individual whose world doesn't just revolve around you.

 

Super needy men are tiring to deal with...they get boring

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...but anywhere I am not. Plague, avoid, and all that.

 

You sound seriously dysfunctional and first and foremost I would want to avoid that for the sake of my own health.

 

I'm sorry if I have got you completely wrong, it's just the way that you make yourself sound.

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I know this might sound weird but I've been trying to find a needy man for almost a year now and no luck.

 

I've encountered nothing but the studs or bad guy types, which I reject very fast.

 

Where are them found; the ones who are quiet, hardly ever said no and are naturally needy? At least they don't give you hassle and I won't have to undergo a heartbroke and I'll always have the upperhand in the relationship.

 

What about dating indian, asian, or hispanic men? Interracial dating is popular for American women who have a humanitarian interest.

 

Yeah, online dating on OKcupid and POF will probably find the nerdy guys that don't go out much. World of Warcraft is a good place too.

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OLD...started chatting with a guy Saturday night, we chatted on Sunday a little bit, I wished him a good night around 6pm. Later on I went back on to check a new message, within a minute I got a "you're online, but you said you were going to bed, don't you like me anymore?"...clingy and needy.

 

Prisons too maybe. Date an inmate.

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What are the best places to find them at? Would it be at a church because I've tried a library and science club but still no luck.

 

At times I feel as if what I'm looking for is like a unique pearl found on the bottom of an ocean while I'm endlessly trying to get to it.

 

Human beings learn by observation. Those decent guys you are now looking for noticed that when you could, you were only interested in bad boys and studs. Now you want to find a provider. Not gonna happen, honey. The few men who haven't learned their lesson are either hiding away from you or they're dating young women.

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I have tons of needy men that I would love to offload. Those are sadly the only types that go for me.

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