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Am I right for backing off?


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Met a woman online. We texted for about 3 weeks before meeting because if our scheds. We both initiates, she initiates a little more than I do but she doesn't "blow me up". We're pretty much daily contact with a missed day here and there.

 

We were supposed to go out Wed but she got called into work and was very apologetic and said she'll make sure she has nothing going on this time next week. I said ok, made a flirty joke and said we can shoot for next week.

 

I'm 99% positive she's telling the truth but you never know especially since it's OLD. TBS I backed off of contacting her, I didn't text her yesrerday and won't today but might tomorrow. I don't wanna go cold but I'm not going to keep initiating, especially since the balls in her court since she cancelled. And I don't want to look desperate by maintaing contact even though she cancelled our date.I just don't want her to think I'm mad at her and move on. It just feels weird because it messes up the pace since it'll be 2 weeks next time we see each other, it lets the flame blow out.

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Wait for her to miss you a bit.

 

And keep yourself busy.

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